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A conundrum- parking ticket

38 replies

hattie43 · 23/07/2022 21:38

You've driven 3 friends to a concert and road diversions have made you really late and you're panicking you'll miss the beginning of the concert or worse they won't let you in at all .

Driving close to the venue your friend shouts they've seen a car space in a street to park up and you leg it to the venue .

After the concert you get back to the car to find a parking ticket .

Is it the driver who stumps up the full cost as they are legally responsible for parking correctly or should it be split between all of you as it was a passenger who shouted out the space and all friends benefitted by not missing the beginning of the concert .

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NannyGythaOgg · 23/07/2022 23:06

split between the 3 of you.

I got a speeding ticket in Australia. Long, straight, wide road with 80k (50m) limit. The cop car was coming towards us and zapped us from the front. both passengers admitted/boasted they would have been driving faster than me. (60mph). and were happy to contribute a third each. (no points or anything as it was a hire car in a different country)

pimlicoanna · 23/07/2022 23:09

It's the driver's responsibility but if they are actually friends surely they'd offer to chip in

parietal · 23/07/2022 23:13

legally it is the driver, but the friends should offer to split it - they all benefited from the parking and could all have noticed the error.

bluekostree · 23/07/2022 23:18

Split it

RewildingAmbridge · 23/07/2022 23:18

Legally it's the driver's problem, but friends should offer to split it, once divided by four it's not such a bother, just a slight extra charge for not being late to the concert, whereas an extra £40/£50 for one person is more of an impact. I'd offer any friend of mine in a heartbeat.

MrsRobinsonsHandprints · 23/07/2022 23:20

The driver is the only one with actual legal and moral responsibility for this

Disagree, driver is legally responsible, everyone in the car is morally responsible.

Electriq · 23/07/2022 23:21

I'd split if my friend was driving me

SuperCamp · 23/07/2022 23:40

If I was a passenger I would insist on sharing the cost.

SuperCamp · 23/07/2022 23:43

Don’t ever give them a lift again, OP!

drinkallthecoffee · 23/07/2022 23:47

I think it should be split but if I was the driver I'd feel a bit awkward asking my friends to split it. However if I was a passenger I'd offer something towards it.

Doyoumind · 23/07/2022 23:53

Definitely split between all. I honestly can't believe people are saying the driver has to pay. They were generous enough to be the one to drive. Why would they have to pay it all? If I were a pasenger I wouldn't expect the driver to pay it all.

PortalooSunset · 23/07/2022 23:54

Technically driver's responsibility however if the others are decent people it will be split.

hattie43 · 24/07/2022 06:21

Thanks for your thought everyone .
As an update I paid the ticket .
Everyone said we'd share the cost but of course the night ended , the ticket remained in the car and so it felt churlish to ask for money after the event .

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