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If you don't return your trolley at the supermarket, why is that?

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ChinBristles · 09/07/2022 16:03

A woman today, in a P&C space with no child (but that's a different argument) just let her trolley blow away after she'd put her shopping in the boot. I retrieved it and put it behind her car so she couldn't get out. She was raging!

Why do people not return their trolleys?

OP posts:
Florenz · 10/07/2022 15:08

They need to make the trolleys more expensive - £5 or more, that way fewer people would be lazy. Or do a thing while you have to scan your clubcard into the trolley and if you don't return it, the discounts from the club card on your shop are removed and you are charged extra.

ChinBristles · 10/07/2022 15:16

@Florenz bloody brilliant idea!!

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Notanotherwindow · 10/07/2022 15:30

@Florenz I think this is brilliant. Suddenly I think people would discover that they actually can be arsed after all. You could call it the twat tax.

ChinBristles · 10/07/2022 15:48

"Twat tax" - love it!

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Alphabet1spaghetti2 · 10/07/2022 16:06

Sparklingbrook · 10/07/2022 14:59

Do you wash the dishes when you go to a restaurant too

How is that a comparison? you can very easily take a trolley back to the bay, not so much getting into the kitchen in a restaurant to load the dishwasher. ConfusedBut you can make the table easier to clear if you are so inclined.

Yes, not taking your trolly back to a trolly park/bay is akin to eating in a restaurant and throwing your food on the floor then grinding it into the carpet, and allowing your kids to watch tv via iPad at full blast - because they can’t be arsed to think for once about anybody but themselves.

it’s not the same as taking you dishes back to the kitchen.

Alphabet1spaghetti2 · 10/07/2022 16:07

@Florenz careful! With thinking like that, you’ll be in the running for next PM…!

DeadbeatYoda · 10/07/2022 17:37

AitkenDrum1970 · 09/07/2022 17:24

Not only do I always put my trolley back in the trolley bay, I also tidy them up so they’re all tucked inside the right sizes! 😄

Me too

WishILivedInThrushGreen · 10/07/2022 17:48

@Branleuse
You are the very reason companies have to bend over backwards and redeploy their staff.

I've witnessed many, many people like you at our local Tesco who park but three spaces from a trolley park ( usually in a P&C space ) but cannot be bothered.

WishILivedInThrushGreen · 10/07/2022 17:49

Wish this actually was a thread about P&C parking... makes my blood boil!

Sparklingbrook · 10/07/2022 18:17

WishILivedInThrushGreen · 10/07/2022 17:49

Wish this actually was a thread about P&C parking... makes my blood boil!

I think that's been done to death, this is a new twist on car park etiquette.

limitededitionbarbie · 10/07/2022 18:24

Bakedpotatoesfortea · 09/07/2022 16:09

Round my area (nice and posh obvs) people push their shopping home in the trolley, or sometimes move house with them. Then they dump them in the woods or the local park.

I must live by you!

curiousitygotthebetterofme · 10/07/2022 19:24

I can’t believe some people can make excuses for leaving their trolleys lying in the car park.

why not make the trolley staff’s jobs a bit easier and leave the trolley in the shelter? That way they can focus on getting the trolleys to the front door - it’ll only delay them if they have to run round the entire car park looking for strays!

also, apart from possibly damaging someone’s car if it rolled into one, what if it was windy and it rolled into a tiny old woman and knocked her off her feet?

Gingerkittykat · 10/07/2022 20:03

I don't think I've seen so much vitriol on this thread as when a mum took a few extra sachets of jam and Nutella from a breakfast buffet, mind you nobody there linked that to mass shootings!

Prinnny · 10/07/2022 20:46

Twat tax…love it 😂😂😂

coodawoodashooda · 10/07/2022 21:58

Florenz · 10/07/2022 15:08

They need to make the trolleys more expensive - £5 or more, that way fewer people would be lazy. Or do a thing while you have to scan your clubcard into the trolley and if you don't return it, the discounts from the club card on your shop are removed and you are charged extra.

No they don't. On amazon you can buy a coin release token that tricks the trolley into being released without depositing any money or leaving a fake pound. I can't believe how many people are enjoying superiority over their trolley behaviour.

Dadschat · 10/07/2022 23:37

xsquared · Today 13:14
BalloonsAndWhistles
Branleuse
I do sometimes, especially for the ones you put a coin in, but for some others, if the trolleypark isnt close by, i dont bother.

Theres several reasons for this.

Supermarkets pay people to collect the trolleys, and if they dont, then they should, as it always used to be a thing.

It feels similar to me as self service checkouts and reduction of staff in many sectors.

Sometimes they are really far away and its a faff.

If ive just spent a fucking fortune in your store, picked my own stuff,packed my own bags and seen that most people are now even scanning their own shopping at the checkout too, then they can get fucked if they think im going to feel guilty because sometimes they have to pay someone to collect and tidy the trolleys and baskets.

Trolley collecting/returning is not a moral issue or a sign of character.
You sound so entitled
The reasons given here does not excuse anyone from common courtesy.

Xsuared wrote : Do you also drop litter because a road sweeper is paid to clear it up at some point?

If it's such a faff for you to enter a store, pick your shopping, scan and pack, and then walk your trolley to the collection point, then why don't you just do an online shop and get it delivered?

Saves you time and the physical effort from doing all those things.

@xsquared because it’s easier sometimes to shop you’re self, and leave the trolley where the heck I choose, as opposed to shop online and be lumbered with dented fruit and veg, short date perishables and a time slot that might not suit me. Nobody has come up with an actual example of how leaving a trolley in the carpel made something bad happen.

Branleuse · 10/07/2022 23:48

WishILivedInThrushGreen · 10/07/2022 17:48

@Branleuse
You are the very reason companies have to bend over backwards and redeploy their staff.

I've witnessed many, many people like you at our local Tesco who park but three spaces from a trolley park ( usually in a P&C space ) but cannot be bothered.

Oh dear. How will i sleep at night knowing I dont meet some random internet peoples standard of behaviour supermarket trolley etiquette?

What is the point of this thread anyway?
Even people who cannot always manage to return a trolley neatly due to disabilities have been told they should stay home and order their shopping on the internet ffs. Passive aggressive putting the trolley behind someones reversing car.
Some of you clearly need better hobbies

Branleuse · 10/07/2022 23:51

Thanks for the tip about internet shopping. Genius.
Or maybe i can live my life within the parameters of the law and make my own decisions and you live yours

Branleuse · 10/07/2022 23:53

curiousitygotthebetterofme · 10/07/2022 19:24

I can’t believe some people can make excuses for leaving their trolleys lying in the car park.

why not make the trolley staff’s jobs a bit easier and leave the trolley in the shelter? That way they can focus on getting the trolleys to the front door - it’ll only delay them if they have to run round the entire car park looking for strays!

also, apart from possibly damaging someone’s car if it rolled into one, what if it was windy and it rolled into a tiny old woman and knocked her off her feet?

Oh no. Poor imaginary old lady

coodawoodashooda · 11/07/2022 00:27

I honestly didn't know this trolley put back thing was a thing

Sparklingbrook · 11/07/2022 00:33

coodawoodashooda · 11/07/2022 00:27

I honestly didn't know this trolley put back thing was a thing

Only for some apparently...

coodawoodashooda · 11/07/2022 00:53

Sparklingbrook · 11/07/2022 00:33

Only for some apparently...

I'm happy to put the trolley back if it's convenient but if it isn't then I won't. I think it's like that virtual signalling thing where people are happy to show how decent they are.

Sparklingbrook · 11/07/2022 00:56

it's like that virtual signalling thing where people are happy to show how decent they are

Strange way to view it, especially as people do it even when there's nobody to see it but ok.

coodawoodashooda · 11/07/2022 01:22

Yeah but pulling other people up for not doing it

xsquared · 11/07/2022 04:49

It's just good manners...but I guess that's a thing of the past too and virtue signalling if someone pulls another up for it.