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Things that are more complicated than they need to be.

167 replies

ThreeApplesHigh · 21/05/2022 11:55

I nominate hotel showers. Every time I have to use one, I have the Crystal Maze theme playing in my head while I figure out which combination of knobs and buttons turns the shower on and not the bath taps.

Your nominations?

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TeenPlusCat · 22/05/2022 11:53

Telling DDs college she will be absent for half a day.
No I can't tell them in advance, I have to tell them after she is picked up.
So I collect her bring her home, then email them the time she was collected.
Then 3 hours later I get an 'not notified' absence email.
So I don't know if they are going to process my notified or not.
I've given up.

Similarly their % attendance. Which counts a double 2hr lesson as 1 lesson, and also the lesson DD never attends because she has a timetable clash as 1 lesson.
So on a Friday if she doesn't attend she misses 3 lessons, but a Wednesday she misses 6 (only 5 lessons per day). She misses far more Wednesdays than Fridays. Her attendance is low, but not as damn low as they make it out to be.

Ah. Feel better now.

PastMyBestBeforeDate · 22/05/2022 12:14

Blood tests.
Getting the results to the right places this time has involved 7 phone calls, unreturned voice mail and I still don't know if they've been sent in time for planned treatment.

BeyondMyWits · 22/05/2022 12:14

I would say selecting films with the sky remote control... but I looked it up online. So the sky remote for my husband!! I told him, press the button and speak... use voice, just TELL IT WHAT YOU WANT FFS... but he will painstakingly use the alphabetical scroll for every letter of a film title etc. e.v.e.r.y. t.i.m.e.

mamaduckbone · 22/05/2022 13:36

Paying for car parking when it's one of those phone systems.

TigerRag · 22/05/2022 13:40

I'm not a technophobe. But having to do everything by app. I can't order food in certain places at the bar, I have to download their app and order.

the80sweregreat · 22/05/2022 13:51

Apps are a nightmare. I cannot get on with them.
Also trying to remember my number plate for some pay parking machines in town. had to go back and take a photo of the number plate. Then the keys are tiny and I type it in wrong , then I had a queue of people behind me ( who appeared from nowhere !) then I get flustered because I can feel the resentment of other people who also need a ticket but haven't got the app ( or know how it works )
Then making sure the ticket is correct way up in the wind screen and another photo so I can remember when to get back before it runs out.
I love car parks without having to pay!

NeverDropYourMooncup · 23/05/2022 23:31

Lalupita · 22/05/2022 11:32

Another vote for SIMS. Absolutely awful programme. I only want the take the register for god's sake but I have to wait 5 minutes for it to load and click a hundred buttons to get on my class. And it forces me to make a new password every few weeks. Argh!
And the teachers pension scheme. Why so many different types - career average, final salary, 1/60th, 1/80th, 1/57th. Usually a mix of more than one. Days out, part time years, gaps in service, voluntary contributions. And so many errors I've had to sort!

If it's your class, you should have a yellow box for that period at the top of the screen - double click on that and it takes you straight to the register.

DragonwithoutaDungeon · 24/05/2022 02:15

Riapia · 21/05/2022 13:06

Opening a new pack of toilet/kitchen rolls.
Packaging designed by a fucking sadistic twat.

Pull it tight and run a fingernail between the rolls, lightly and quickly. Don't do it where the plastic is folded over itself, do it where there's just one layer of plastic.

Finding the end of the sellotape on the other hand... Grin

Flatandhappy · 24/05/2022 02:58

Overseas travel these days (non EU). Country 1 needed evidence of a negative PCR within 48 hours of travel and five different documents in hard copy on arrival, an App also needed to be downloaded. Returning home an App had to be downloaded, form completed and screenshotted. Two weeks later country 2 needed a negative PCR within 24 hours of travel (someone next to me was refused boarding as her PCR test was 28 hours old) and an online form completed and hard copy printed. Returning home the original App now refused to accept previous passwords, took three attempts to change password. Remember to screenshot…..

MardyOldGoth · 24/05/2022 02:59

Trying to pin my energy supplier down to an actual payment amount.

Teaching my mother to use any electronic device invented since 1990.

Applying for PIP.

MadameFantabulosa · 24/05/2022 03:39

Getting a GP face to face appointment. My mother was told repeatedly via a telephone consultation that the pain in her chest and back was a pulled muscle. This went on for months. Doctor grudgingly finally booked her in for an x ray. She has pleurisy and fluid on her lungs, now on steroids and strong antibiotics. Told by GP receptionist that she should have seen a doctor sooner…

mjf981 · 24/05/2022 06:35

Trying to figure out how to drop a rental car off at York train station, when doing it for the first time. Nightmare!

mjf981 · 24/05/2022 06:37

Oh, and passwords. Some need capital letters, some need uppercase, some allow or need other characters/some don't (like @) some need to be 8+ letters etc...so you end up for 20 different passwords. And can't remember them all. Infuriating!!

fridaRose · 24/05/2022 06:45

A lot of these are so simple I genuinely don't understand how people can struggle.

Wonder if it's different generations?
Would be interesting to have a person's age next for their 'struggle fact'.

TV controllers...? Hotel Showers??

Snog · 24/05/2022 06:48

Trying to report a crime via 101
Getting the police to do anything whatsoever towards solving a crime.

neerg · 24/05/2022 06:48

Remote controls. On particular why I need two, one to change channels and the other to alter the sound.

MerylSqueak · 24/05/2022 06:50

Deregistering as self employed with HMRC. It's been 18 months of trying and many letters now.

I stopped doing one job and got a different job guys. It's not unusual.

Caminante · 24/05/2022 06:50

mjf981 · 24/05/2022 06:37

Oh, and passwords. Some need capital letters, some need uppercase, some allow or need other characters/some don't (like @) some need to be 8+ letters etc...so you end up for 20 different passwords. And can't remember them all. Infuriating!!

You need a password manager like Last Pass or similar! Makes my life a lot easier!

Fizbosshoes · 24/05/2022 06:59

I saw a book, like an address book or diary, in WH smiths for recording all your passwords....I thought the whole point was you had to keep them secret/secure....?

I am so happy if I buy something online and there is a "guest checkout" meaning I don't have to make an account and remember another password!

Fizbosshoes · 24/05/2022 07:02

Buying jeans when you are petite.

Yes!!
Although I would also add
Buying bras to fit
Buying dresses to fit

Schulte · 24/05/2022 07:10

neerg · 24/05/2022 06:48

Remote controls. On particular why I need two, one to change channels and the other to alter the sound.

Yes! My remote controls also have a hundred buttons. I only ever use two of the buttons 🙄

Schulte · 24/05/2022 07:16

I’m so glad that all the things I get cross about have been mentioned on here! At least I’m not alone!

Solosunrise · 24/05/2022 07:29

Shannith · 21/05/2022 13:08

Shoulder in (niche)

Start by teaching it in hand (in an attempt to out niche you, @Shannith 😂

catwomando · 24/05/2022 07:30

Anything Microsoft

Keladrythesaviour · 24/05/2022 07:33

Claiming on lifetime guarantees. I've got a saucepan from Le Creuset which has deteriorated. It has a lifetime guarantee line all their stuff. So I've emailed them, and they've responded with a list of questions I need to become a PhD student to answer. Surely, if all your products have a lifetime guarantee, and I have a photo of a product that has failed, it should be a simple process to replace it? Argh!