Have you ever got dumped for what you and other people consider a small thing ?

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I mean for example: not ringing someone back on time
turning up to the date late
turning up drunk or out of it

ive recently been binned off as I prefer to call it, no talking no explanation.. I made a mistake but his reaction seems quite extreme. Unless of course he didn’t like me :)

I don't think I have, no. But turning up drunk, or out of it, wouldn't be a small thing for me: I might be ok with it with someone I knew well and loved, but early on in a relationship it would be a no-no.

Depends on the mistake?

But people won’t usually dump someone they’re really into over a small mishap.

I suspect some people are dumped for what to them looks like a one off mistake, but to the other person looks like the last straw in a pattern of unpleasant or thoughtless behaviour.

Turning up late is rude and shows disregard for someone else's time.

Turning up drunk and thinking that was a small trivial matter would highlight an incompatibility.

I was dumped from a 2 year relationship for not knowing what his favourite veg was Turns out he was shagging someone else. I'm quite proud that was the worst thing he could come up with