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New employee is a fake, where to go from here?

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londonnotlangdon · 28/04/2022 06:56

It's a large organisation and I just had to send off her paperwork, passport, things like that

She was given the job after her second interview last week.

However, she has emailed me these documents (fine), and her birth certificate says born in September 2002?

That makes her 19?

This is a problem because, for example, her CV says she was an Executive Assistant to a Director in 2018? When she would've been in school?!

I've asked HR, who haven't replied properly, I've asked them to call. But someone replied to my email of concern with 'so you don't want this new me ever of staff? Why not?'

What can actually be done about this?

OP posts:
CorsicaDreaming · 28/04/2022 14:14

@Alightjacket -

'"Memories with my girls' is exactly what a group of school girlfriends would post about a photo of them together."

Well It's 100% not what my group of girlfriends would post about our school days pics.

It sounds ridiculously twee and feigned.

Ours would be more
"LOL I can't believe I wore that bright pink jumper! Well at least you weren't wearing a bit of string round your wrist to look like Morten Harkett..."

Or something similarly irreverent

It sounds far too formal for real mates.

CorsicaDreaming · 28/04/2022 14:16

Agree with @TheSillyMastiff - tread carefully as it doesn't look like HR are backing you up at moment and if you end up having to work with her as her direct LM you don't want it to be really strained.

Villagewaspbyke · 28/04/2022 14:16

Tbh HR people generally don’t understand too much of equality law and get wrong what they do know in my experience.

VickyEadieofThigh · 28/04/2022 14:19

londonnotlangdon · 28/04/2022 10:24

I have spoken to HR. Got the answer I thought I'd get - Dodgy ground as it could be classed as age discrimstion. I said how when the dates don't add up? She told me because you're looking to closely at her age and judging from that fact what she can and can't achieve Confused

I have been advised to not ask her anything else until I speak to someone more senior as it could be again seen as discrimination and I don't have the option to withdraw the offer yet

I have asked to speak to someone more senior. They're in later this afternoon but unsure when. They're going to call. If they don't then I will call again.

I've seen your update that she's withdrawn OP but wanted to comment on the bizarre argument by your HR dept.

Discovering that someone has misrepresented their previous experience (because that's clearly what she did) isn't "age discrimination", it's catching someone out when they've misrepresented their previous experience. In some lines of work, that's instant dismissal.

Pointing out that someone couldn't possibly have been a company PA at age 13 is merely exmaining their CV and discovering a falsehood.

That HR dept don't sound like they know their arses from their elbows.

CorsicaDreaming · 28/04/2022 14:20

AlisonDonut · 28/04/2022 11:25

As an ex manager the worst thing you can do is employ someone that you have doubt about as they moment they set foot inside the company they are hard to remove.
Particularly when a HR department doesn't even know what to do when the reference and document check comes back with issues.
You cannot proceed knowing some of her info is fake.

Totally agree with this. We've had a couple of really unfortunate appointments in our team and they end up not pulling their weight, it puts huge strain on everyone else, and it took ages to go through processes to get rid of them.

VickyEadieofThigh · 28/04/2022 14:20

Villagewaspbyke · 28/04/2022 14:16

Tbh HR people generally don’t understand too much of equality law and get wrong what they do know in my experience.

Exactly my experience and my point, too!

CorsicaDreaming · 28/04/2022 14:22

MochaHoldTheMilkAndCoffee · 28/04/2022 11:35

This is v outing but I went to this school!

It really isn't 🤣

IamtheDevilsAvocado · 28/04/2022 14:22

PenelopeLively · 28/04/2022 13:15

@IamtheDevilsAvocado this is what happened on my role, except being the same level and role I had to mop up her mistakes, I was told I caused problems and constantly reported and she harassed me. Truly one of the worst experiences in my life! All because the line manager wanted her and brushed her lack of relevant references under the rug!!

Yup truly grim

There was another example of a very pretty intern type voluntary person who got her feet under the table.

Another clinician warned the bosses how concerned she was about her behaviour on day 3 exceedingly and worryingly bad.

She was ignored.... It did not end well.. Senior persons concerns were bang on, they were ignored. Cost the organisation hideous amount of money and very senior people left because of her... She caused that many issues.

Im so glad I no longer work there!

CorsicaDreaming · 28/04/2022 14:22

Acheyknees · 28/04/2022 11:39

From my experience I'd never underestimate the lengths people go to get a job. We have a drugs test before comfirming employment, all very clear from the outset. Candidates are told we take a hair sample. One chap decided to shave all his hair off before the test.

Well I hope you gave him the job 😉

C8H10N4O2 · 28/04/2022 14:23

We've had a couple of really unfortunate appointments in our team and they end up not pulling their weight, it puts huge strain on everyone else, and it took ages to go through processes to get rid of them

You don't have a probation period for new hires?

Or you don't have line managers capable of managing performance and raising issues in a timely manner?

Crazylazydayz · 28/04/2022 14:23

Villagewaspbyke · 28/04/2022 14:16

Tbh HR people generally don’t understand too much of equality law and get wrong what they do know in my experience.

Qualified HR professionals do know equality law and have at least annual refreshers. We need to know the latest case law and maintain our CPD. I have certainly corrected employment lawyers in the past.

Part of the problem is HR are ask to resolve an issue once the discrimination has occurred, so you are often looking for creative ways to resolve the situation.

DogInATent · 28/04/2022 14:24

I am sure this is commonplace in many places of work. I work in the public sector and we are very much bound by process and legislation. I don’t know why you think that line managers wouldn’t see this material.
Perhaps this is still more common than I think, but I'm deep into an information security audit and the auditor is showing a great deal of interest in how PII is handled during recruitment. I thought the controls we had in place were good, but they need to go to another level to come up to scratch. And we don't take RTW documentation before interview. The candidate supplies it in a sealed envelope or via an encrypted portal online and only HR review it.

Fortbite · 28/04/2022 14:27

DogInATent · 28/04/2022 14:24

I am sure this is commonplace in many places of work. I work in the public sector and we are very much bound by process and legislation. I don’t know why you think that line managers wouldn’t see this material.
Perhaps this is still more common than I think, but I'm deep into an information security audit and the auditor is showing a great deal of interest in how PII is handled during recruitment. I thought the controls we had in place were good, but they need to go to another level to come up to scratch. And we don't take RTW documentation before interview. The candidate supplies it in a sealed envelope or via an encrypted portal online and only HR review it.

Whats the point of it being provided in a sealed envelope? Presumably they aren't going to leave their passport or whatever for a prolonged time with a perspective employer- just hand it over to the relevant person or have it photocopied or whatever. Sounds like someone creating a job by coming up with ridiculous and unnecessary security measures. How many breaches had your employer had prior to audit of people's documents being breached?

Cuck00soup · 28/04/2022 14:32

I think in the public and third sectors HR are often a smallish team and are there to advise hiring managers when needed.

Everywhere is different but I'm used to Pre-employment checks including documentation checks for RTW & DBS being done by dedicated admin staff who have been specifically trained.

EileenGC · 28/04/2022 14:33

Glad the problem has disappeared OP. I started reading this thread in the morning then had to take a flight, and didn't get a chance to comment until now.

All of those saying the timeline couldn't possibly be true, well mine is somewhat similar.

I got into university at 15 and by 18 I was regularly working in the top 5 companies worldwide in my industry. It's rare but it happens. At that age I had many, many people say to me that I could pass for being 25/30 years old, simply because I had worked in those circles since a very young age and I looked and behaved just like my older colleagues. I skipped teen slang entirely, but could give eloquent public presentations at 16/17 and no one would have guessed my age from how I spoke. Mind you, the gap shrinks over time and I've been stuck at 'you look 30' for almost a decade now Grin

Nothing on my CV is a lie although I guess it could look like one. I don't live in the UK right now and where I am, you have to attach copies of your qualifications with any job application, so they've always checked out. It's a niche industry and people can easily verify whether what I say is true, I've never had an issue with that.

That said, I was also in OP's camp throughout the thread because this girl does seem to have blatantly lied - mainly based on how her references do not seem genuine (emails and addresses not matching, etc). There are more con artists than 'prodigies' (for lack of a less cringy word) out there. This person sounds more like the former based on her CV alone.

Luculentus · 28/04/2022 14:36

CorsicaDreaming · 28/04/2022 13:55

@milkyaqua

"All of this before reaching the grand old age of 19?!"

But the OP says she seems much older than 19- even 25 at one point up thread.

She could certainly have had a MH episode or bullying by a boss by 25 - I'm not saying all three at once, it was just to give some examples of where gaps appear in CVs and naive people will attempt to cover up - or desperation if you've applied for a string of jobs and not got to interview. So I still think it is possible

If true it's still tricky as she's been offered the job on false details, but a sympathetic employer may decide to keep her on in these circs (but not if she'd done 6 months inside for money laundering or GBH) was my point...

The issue is not how she seemed, but the fact that her birth certificate and passport show her to be 19.

Wheresmywoolyjumpers · 28/04/2022 14:37

@garlicandsapphires - great user name - love that book!

MissusMaisel · 28/04/2022 14:38

yellowsuninthesky · 28/04/2022 13:11

What if she lies on the job as well? What if she says she's sent that contract regarding that million pound deal and she hasn't? One person can cause A LOT of problems. Then you have the issue of getting rid of her

I love the casual ageism here. Why is she any more likely to be a useless liar than anyone else, because she's 19? Anyway, the issue has been resolved, due to the OP's eagle eye. She may have dodged a bullet, she may have lost out on a good employee. We'll never know.

OFGS, she's not more likely to be a useless liar because of her age, she's likely to be a useless liar because she clearly IS A LIAR and is pretty useless at even that!

Luculentus · 28/04/2022 14:39

DogInATent · 28/04/2022 13:57

@Piglet89 I agree that @DogsAndGin has the wrong take, but there's a question over why the OP is seeing the passport. PII has to be handled carefully to comply with GDPR and she claims this is a large organisation with an HR department. It would be unusual for RTW and identity checks to be done by a line manager or for an applicant to be expected to send these to a line manager to be forwarded on. There's no valid reason I can think of why she should have seen these documents. And that's without the unnecessary birth certificate when a passport was available (but it does embellish the story nicely).

She sent the documents to the company she wanted to be employed by. Not every company has an HR department, and there is no rigid rule of thumb by which HR departments work. A complaint based on the fact that the person she sent the documents to looked at them would never get past first base.

youvegottenminuteslynn · 28/04/2022 14:42

@yellowsuninthesky

Why is she any more likely to be a useless liar than anyone else, because she's 19?

Don't be silly. Nobody thinks she's more likely to be a liar because she's 19.

They think she's more likely to be a liar because she's claimed to have had a professional admin roles at well known organisations from the age of thirteen (!) without breaks.

TheChurchOfEli · 28/04/2022 14:43

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yellowsuninthesky · 28/04/2022 14:45

From my experience I'd never underestimate the lengths people go to get a job. We have a drugs test before confirming employment, all very clear from the outset

and the legal grounds for requiring such a test are what? Unless you are airline pilots or in some other safety critical role, I cannot see how this can possibly be lawful.

Luculentus · 28/04/2022 14:45

Crazylazydayz · 28/04/2022 14:23

Qualified HR professionals do know equality law and have at least annual refreshers. We need to know the latest case law and maintain our CPD. I have certainly corrected employment lawyers in the past.

Part of the problem is HR are ask to resolve an issue once the discrimination has occurred, so you are often looking for creative ways to resolve the situation.

I'm sure that good HR professionals do all this. The problem is that all too many don't. As for maintaining CPD, it's all too easy IME to do that whilst sleeping through the CPD sessions or simply clocking in and then skiving off.

yellowsuninthesky · 28/04/2022 14:46

youvegottenminuteslynn · 28/04/2022 14:42

@yellowsuninthesky

Why is she any more likely to be a useless liar than anyone else, because she's 19?

Don't be silly. Nobody thinks she's more likely to be a liar because she's 19.

They think she's more likely to be a liar because she's claimed to have had a professional admin roles at well known organisations from the age of thirteen (!) without breaks.

The post I was replying to was actually in another context. Before you call people silly, you should read things properly.

yellowsuninthesky · 28/04/2022 14:48

I'm sure that good HR professionals do all this. The problem is that all too many don't. As for maintaining CPD, it's all too easy IME to do that whilst sleeping through the CPD sessions or simply clocking in and then skiving off

I don't know about HR, but for library/knowledge management roles and legal roles, you have to reflect on your CPD and how it has helped you in your role (or not). However, I don't suppose it necessarily means that you can't turn off your camera during a webinar and do something else Grin