My partner of 8 years turns 50 this year. I’ve booked us a weekend away by train within the UK. Tickets for a gin and whisky distillery tour and tasting, comedy club tickets and tickets to another arty event in the city. There’ll be plenty of time to wander round and enjoy the city too. I’ll book nice restaurants for both nights though he will probably insist on paying for those. Does that seem like a decent present? He doesn’t want anything in particular and doesn’t like getting stuff just for the sake of it.