Lack of sex and the loss of it

[Lions32]

Hello all,
So, I’m a decent looking man in his mid 30’s and thought I’d come on here and say hello. I know this is not a sex forum or a dating place I’m well aware of this. I just wanted to share my issue and see if any like minded people are in the same boat.

So…I’ve gone without sex now for about a year and a half and it’s a nightmare! I have a high sex drive but my girlfriend is not interested and would rather just cuddle. Everyone likes a cuddle but I miss more than that, I’m kinky minded and I’m not really sure what to do. I live in south London and I’m not looking for advice because believe me I’ve tried it all. Just want someone in the same boat who wouldn’t mind sharing some thoughts they have.

Seriously. Can’t women be left in peace, without harassment of this kind. This is our space, to support each other. Men are welcome as long as they are respectful. I don’t think the tone of your message is.

Are you helping her and supporting her in all shared aspects of your life together?

Is she knackered and run off her feet all the time? Are you making her feel loved and special?

Or are you just poking and grabbing her in bed at night then being in a shitty mood if she's not up for it 🙄

Talk to your partner or a therapist
Don't mess her around and shag about because poor you can't jizz where u want when u want

I don't think you'll find many kinky minded men in the same boat in south london on here op.

Here, have my first ever oh and