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What does your image mean to you?

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Wingingit15 · 17/04/2022 21:05

I’ve never really been that interested in style and maintenance (particularly as don’t have much money for it) and was thinking tonight (on a low mood) maybe I would feel better about myself if I did.
What is your perception of your image ? How important is it to you?

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Isgooglebroken · 18/04/2022 18:02

Not much anymore tbh.
Not matter how much effort I put in my sleek, styled hair looks like I’ve been dragged through a bush within a couple of hours and I always seem to look a rumpled mess.

After a period of illness I’ve pretty much given up and am just rocking bag lady chic. I’m spending my energy on meditation, yoga, nutrition etc so I feel as well as possible rather than worrying about applying foundation, shadow & mascara because it would only end up smudged under my eyes anyway!

I think a little bit of self care does make you feel better about yourself, but that could be a long bath with a lovely candle, an hour a day with a good book or a reflexology session rather than suddenly spending hours on personal maintenance or money on style.

I hope you feel brighter soon Flowers

PegasusReturns · 18/04/2022 18:06

I like that I am known as “stylish” and that my clothes are complimented.

I enjoy clothes and like looking well put together, I don’t care quite enough to be up in the gym every morning but I certainly make an effort. It’s part of who I am

PegasusReturns · 18/04/2022 18:08

Speaking for myself I know I feel better when I’ve made an effort, whether it’s a hair wash or a new top.

If you’re feeling low perhaps a few elements of self care might help? Nothing ventured and all that

ResentfulLemon · 18/04/2022 18:35

Not remotely important. I dress appropriately for the occasion but whether people think I'm stylish, well put together, bohemian, unfashionable...I really don't care.

Comfort and function are all that's important to me.

tiggergoesbounce · 18/04/2022 18:39

When (i feel) i look good and im in shape, it makes me a happier person.

I like going to the gym, i like putting on clothes that look good and i always do my make up before i leave the house of a morning.

On the flip side i also don't mind having panda eyes and frizzy hair after a swimming session with our DS.

fffffeeeedddduupp · 18/04/2022 18:46

I want an image and admire others but never seem to achieve it myself

carefullycourageous · 18/04/2022 20:13

I definitely have things I would wear and things I wouldn't, but I don't think it constitutes an 'image' so much as a preference.

I CBA with hair and makeup, and I'm ultra low maintenance.

My happiness comes from doing things I enjoy and the way I look doesn't matter enough to me to spend time on it.

DeadButDelicious · 18/04/2022 20:45

I'm a goth and my image is quite important to me. I have a way I like to look and it's important to me that I maintain certain aspects of it, I don't wear make up everyday but my hair is almost always done. All my clothes fall into the trad goth (80's/90's) era, my nails are always black, my hair is always undercut regardless of colour. It's part of who I am as a person and I guess it is a little bit like a suit of armor, I feel more like myself when I present a certain image to the world around me.

mrziggycoco · 18/04/2022 21:03

I like to look and feel comfortable and clean. I like to be thought of as good looking so I do a bit of make up when I go out. I like to look relaxed and pretty for my husband but that doesn't take much effort. I'm fortunate to be good looking with a nice figure and the majority of my effort and money goes on my skin, as I do not want to look particularly old.

Clothes-wise though it's comfy and clean is how I describe it. I love loungewear. I do smart casual, a suit jacket with leggings and a top sets the outfit off.

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