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Someone was in our house last night.

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worried91 · 10/04/2022 10:59

Am so worried and confused about what happened.
1am- DH and I go upto bed, dd1 has popped out to pick up her boyfriend from the pub and bring him back here and dd2 has just arrived home from work. Younger dc have been asleep for hours.
5am- I hear a phone vibrating in the house and what sounds like an alarm, dh puts his ears to the older dc's doors but thinks it's coming from downstairs. Goes down past the (closed?) front door and locates the phone down the back of the couch. Knocks on oldest dd's door and throws the phone to her sleeping boyfriend saying he'd left it downstairs.
8am dd2 goes downstairs for a drink and the front door is wide open. I hear her coming up to check on the little two who are still asleep in bed.
At this point I start getting concerned so go into dd1s room and her boyfriend says the phone isn't his! He thought dh had got confused about who he was giving it to at 5am so just put it under the bed and went back to sleep.
Dh insists the door was closed when he walked past it at 5am (Yale lock no handle so when it's not clicked closed it swings wide open so I believe it was closed)
Back door is locked with the key in the door and the conservatory has an added locking system over the original lock that hasn't been moved.
We live in a nice area, we are on the edge of town with fields all around so you wouldn't walk past our house going anywhere else iyswim, you'd have to be deliberately coming this way.
We rent our house (moved in 18 months ago) so we don't know who all had keys before us which stupidly never crossed my mind until this morning 😕
Nothing seems to have been touched, my bag is over the end of the stairs, the cars and keys are all there and no laptops etc are missing.
I've no idea why anyone would have come in, lost their phone on the couch then left again without us hearing anything.
I'm worried that the person must have still been in the house when dh went downstairs then left the door open when he went out.
The only other thing to add is one night a few weeks ago dd2 came in at 1am then I went out at 5am and the door was wide open. I told her to be more careful when she came in and she insisted that she had closed the door properly but now I'm wondering if someone has done this before.
We've phoned the police who are coming out at some point to talk to us and pick up the phone (phones locked with a gaming picture on the Lock Screen) and will be going to B&Q to get new locks but I feel so on edge wondering what's been going on 😔

OP posts:
Deb311 · 12/04/2022 14:49

Without making myself sound awful, when I was younger and living at home I'd occasionally sneak a guy in that I didn't want my Dad to know about then sneak him out again before they got up! Maybe it's worth having a chat with DD2 and checking before the police attend, just in case x

Deathraystare · 12/04/2022 14:55

I know scummy shift workers aren't really acknowledged by MN but unfortunately some people do have to work shifts that require an alarm for 5am...

Guilty...well 4.30 actually so I can fart about with make up!

Hmm1234 · 12/04/2022 16:05

@worried91

Am so worried and confused about what happened. 1am- DH and I go upto bed, dd1 has popped out to pick up her boyfriend from the pub and bring him back here and dd2 has just arrived home from work. Younger dc have been asleep for hours. 5am- I hear a phone vibrating in the house and what sounds like an alarm, dh puts his ears to the older dc's doors but thinks it's coming from downstairs. Goes down past the (closed?) front door and locates the phone down the back of the couch. Knocks on oldest dd's door and throws the phone to her sleeping boyfriend saying he'd left it downstairs. 8am dd2 goes downstairs for a drink and the front door is wide open. I hear her coming up to check on the little two who are still asleep in bed. At this point I start getting concerned so go into dd1s room and her boyfriend says the phone isn't his! He thought dh had got confused about who he was giving it to at 5am so just put it under the bed and went back to sleep. Dh insists the door was closed when he walked past it at 5am (Yale lock no handle so when it's not clicked closed it swings wide open so I believe it was closed) Back door is locked with the key in the door and the conservatory has an added locking system over the original lock that hasn't been moved. We live in a nice area, we are on the edge of town with fields all around so you wouldn't walk past our house going anywhere else iyswim, you'd have to be deliberately coming this way. We rent our house (moved in 18 months ago) so we don't know who all had keys before us which stupidly never crossed my mind until this morning 😕 Nothing seems to have been touched, my bag is over the end of the stairs, the cars and keys are all there and no laptops etc are missing. I've no idea why anyone would have come in, lost their phone on the couch then left again without us hearing anything. I'm worried that the person must have still been in the house when dh went downstairs then left the door open when he went out. The only other thing to add is one night a few weeks ago dd2 came in at 1am then I went out at 5am and the door was wide open. I told her to be more careful when she came in and she insisted that she had closed the door properly but now I'm wondering if someone has done this before. We've phoned the police who are coming out at some point to talk to us and pick up the phone (phones locked with a gaming picture on the Lock Screen) and will be going to B&Q to get new locks but I feel so on edge wondering what's been going on 😔
Ignore those dying for it to be something g sinister like an affair. Boyfriend was probably too drunk to remember how the phone got there but really seems like they just picked up an extra friend at the pub and they staggered out home. Easy enough to mess about with alarms and accidentally set them for 5am. Reminds me of my younger days
Orgasmagorical · 12/04/2022 17:26

@Deathraystare

I know scummy shift workers aren't really acknowledged by MN but unfortunately some people do have to work shifts that require an alarm for 5am...

Guilty...well 4.30 actually so I can fart about with make up!

I read that as "fart without make-up" Grin
TabithaTittlemouse · 12/04/2022 17:37

People who work shifts!
I know scummy shift workers aren't really acknowledged by MN but unfortunately some people do have to work shifts that require an alarm for 5am...

I get up at 5 for my shift and am known to hide my phone down the back of my neighbours sofa. It’s the only thing that wakes me up

Ormally · 12/04/2022 19:01

It's not the working shifts or whether 5am is that normal or not - it's the thing this door mystery has happened twice in recent times, between 1am and just before 5, when there were several people, not just one, still up and alert enough in the house from 1. And the house is not really 'en route' to anywhere and has fields all around.

It may be a dodgy yale lock, ok, but as PPs have said, if it is, it's a) not that hard to help open from the outside, or b) even easier to open from the inside but then not to shut again, as that would definitely make enough of a noise to be heard by plenty of people upstairs (who may be going to sleep or just waking up).

Blondeshavemorefun · 12/04/2022 19:17

Tho if a secret second phone it wouldn’t be used as the first normal phone

The one used every day and which alarm would be set on for work

Bytrgrewd · 12/04/2022 21:36

@MostlyEatingBiscuits

About 20 years ago friends of ours in London were burgled at night. Ordinary Victorian terrace, nice area but nothing fancy. The burglar got in through the patio doors, found the husband's wallet in the kitchen, still went upstairs, took the wife's handbag from beside the bed while they slept and went out through the front door leaving it open. They didn't hear a thing. Very unusual but very scary. They got an alarm with motion sensors but until then left wallet and handbag out on the kitchen worktop every night before they went to bed.
But I don’t have a handbag so what would the burglar do 🤷🏼‍♀️
Confusedpapoose · 12/04/2022 22:14

@BitOutOfPractice

Well good morning to you too *@Confusedpapoose* 🙄

It wasn't 10pm. It wasn't a crisp packet. I'm a lovely neighbour. HTH

Your comment made you sound pretentious and frankly someone I’d had to live next door to, if you can’t even have your children return home from work without a moan. You’re totally missing the point of the post and instead moaning about a couple of car doors closing. ❤️HTH ❤️
longtompot · 12/04/2022 23:09

@NoCleverNickname

According to my DH, people living in lofts used to be a "thing" back in the 70's in the UK.

In which case, I should imagine that the person living in the OP's loft is very old! Apparently a law came in where people had to make sure that their loft had a dividing wall between the houses as there would be whole families living above rows of terraced houses.

I wonder if OP has had any Saga magazines (are they still a thing in the UK?) delivered (by the now phoneless paper boy) or found any hearing aids or zimmer frames around the house. Because her loft dweller must be at least 65!!

The walls had to be built as they act as a fire break as before them if one house in a terrace was on fire the rest would catch fire. I don't think they were built to stop people living in the attic, but that could have been a side affect of having the walls built.
dropoutdoreen · 13/04/2022 06:36

If it was DH second phone, when he found it, I expect he would have switched it off and returned it back to hiding place. Not hand over to sleeping boyfriend

HappyDaysKeepSmiling · 13/04/2022 08:54

My sister experienced something similar many years ago in a rented flat.
A number of times she'd return home from work and had a feeling that somebody had been in the flat.
Chewing gum left on the coffee table, a glass left out, alcohol seemed to be going down .....
Eventually, she returned home early one day and found the landlord spark out drunk on the sofa.
Seemed he had a drink problem and he didn't want the wife to know !

theshadeofgreen · 13/04/2022 14:46

Any news, OP?

StScholastica · 13/04/2022 23:21

Yes any updates?
I want to know what the police found out about the phone!

debwong · 14/04/2022 13:38

@worried91 Update us please.

worried91 · 14/04/2022 14:22

No update at the moment, apart from someone a few miles away from us had caught someone on their ring door bell trying doors in the early hours of the same day this happened but I'm sure it's just coincidence as it's quite a bit off and doesn't explain how they would have got into our house if it was the same person.

I'm still trying to process all the other information I discovered about myself on this thread- such as I'm the neighbour from hell as one daughter finishes work late and the other picked up her boyfriend late the same night. I'd misspelt "briefly spoke" when I should have put "yelled full blown conversation" and that my husband is an abusive prick for returning a phone to the owner at 5am rather than letting the alarm wake up our little ones 🤷‍♀️
That's before I even get started on how he's obviously cheating on my with his second phone and I've done such a poor job raising my oldest dd that she's ended up with a drug dealer who does all his business from my house!

It's a lot to take in 🙄

OP posts:
VeganGod · 14/04/2022 14:50

@worried91

No update at the moment, apart from someone a few miles away from us had caught someone on their ring door bell trying doors in the early hours of the same day this happened but I'm sure it's just coincidence as it's quite a bit off and doesn't explain how they would have got into our house if it was the same person.

I'm still trying to process all the other information I discovered about myself on this thread- such as I'm the neighbour from hell as one daughter finishes work late and the other picked up her boyfriend late the same night. I'd misspelt "briefly spoke" when I should have put "yelled full blown conversation" and that my husband is an abusive prick for returning a phone to the owner at 5am rather than letting the alarm wake up our little ones 🤷‍♀️
That's before I even get started on how he's obviously cheating on my with his second phone and I've done such a poor job raising my oldest dd that she's ended up with a drug dealer who does all his business from my house!

It's a lot to take in 🙄

Lots of family issues for you to work through there OP, thank god Mumsnetters alerted you to them. 😏 😂
LiesDoNotBecomeUs · 14/04/2022 14:55

@worried91

No update at the moment, apart from someone a few miles away from us had caught someone on their ring door bell trying doors in the early hours of the same day this happened but I'm sure it's just coincidence as it's quite a bit off and doesn't explain how they would have got into our house if it was the same person.

I'm still trying to process all the other information I discovered about myself on this thread- such as I'm the neighbour from hell as one daughter finishes work late and the other picked up her boyfriend late the same night. I'd misspelt "briefly spoke" when I should have put "yelled full blown conversation" and that my husband is an abusive prick for returning a phone to the owner at 5am rather than letting the alarm wake up our little ones 🤷‍♀️
That's before I even get started on how he's obviously cheating on my with his second phone and I've done such a poor job raising my oldest dd that she's ended up with a drug dealer who does all his business from my house!

It's a lot to take in 🙄

You can't be so bad: complete strangers (trainee Santas perhaps?) still want to come to your place and leave expensive presents on your sofa :)
OutlookStalking · 14/04/2022 15:09

Sorry Op but that made me properly laugh!

MrsLargeEmbodied · 14/04/2022 15:29
Grin
MrsLargeEmbodied · 14/04/2022 15:30

every day is a school day @worried91 Wink

Idroppedthescrewinthetuna · 14/04/2022 20:36

This non update is the best I have ever read! What a vile human you are! I am so glad you have seen the error of your ways!
Grin

Weenurse · 15/04/2022 01:16

You are funny 🤣

Soresoresore · 15/04/2022 07:57

@Idroppedthescrewinthetuna

This non update is the best I have ever read! What a vile human you are! I am so glad you have seen the error of your ways! Grin
Yes, thanks to this thread the OP will take some time to reassess every aspect of her toxic life. She’ll come out of this a much better person. Good luck OP 😉😄
debwong · 15/04/2022 12:03

Plot twist: the OP is running a county lines drug gang from her living room and this thread is an elaborate ruse to put her DH (and those pesky interfering neighbours) off the scent.

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