Things you do to prevent ww3 at your house

[Theblackdogagain]

I've 12 year old twin boys.
To prevent the arguments after one has filled the dishwasher I need to check the kitchen to make sure everything else is wash up only before asking the other one to wash up. Otherwise there will be arguments about what's not been touched and making work etc.
Tell me I'm not the only one with over sensitive kids and arguments.

When my kids were sharing food (such as poured pop or pieces of cake) who ever did the cutting or pouring, the other one had first pick of the piece/drink.

It has stood me in good stead, they can both pour glasses of wine with exactly the same amount in each glass.

Sorry can't help....mine fight if one's hand is too near the others on the table, despite there only being the two of them and 6 seats at the table

Mine fell out over homework. It wasn't fair one gets more than the other... it was the one with less complaining.
So I have to give the one with less some extra study ideas..