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Can I shamelessly boast/pat myself on head

34 replies

RedSquirrel111 · 30/03/2022 18:16

Because I can't in real life....
After 4 years of not working because, well usual story abusive ex husband.
I rejoined the workforce Christmas 2016. I took first job I could get on 19k. Before marriage I'd been on 22k but always drifted somewhat.
Anyway, post divorce was determined to sort myself out.
2 jobs and professional qualifications, later, I've just had my pay review and I'm on 37k. So veeeeeeerrrrry nearly double what I was on 5 years ago.
Life isn't about salary and money. And I'm sure people on here still think I'm a pauper. But so bloody proud of myself.
Oh, and I bought my own -smallest in the world- flat too :) all on my little own.

OP posts:
Notbeinfunnehbut · 30/03/2022 18:16

Massive well done! Xx

DrBrennerFan · 30/03/2022 18:16

Love;y well done and enjoy your flat.

RedSquirrel111 · 30/03/2022 18:18

And apologies for the excess of commas and strike out fail!!

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Duracellbunnywannabe · 30/03/2022 18:24

Congratulations 👏

Purplecatshopaholic · 30/03/2022 18:25

Fab job, if you don’t boast who will!

NannyGythaOgg · 30/03/2022 18:26

Well Done. Massive achievement

pheonixrebirth · 30/03/2022 18:27

Well done! You've got every right to brag!🎉

RedScarfJamjar · 30/03/2022 18:28

You have done brilliantly and I am very proud of you, you should be proud of yourself and your lovely bijou apartment. Because it's not a tiny flat, it's a Bijou apartment!

Oblahdeeoblahdoe · 30/03/2022 18:29

You have every right to be proud of yourself. Hope you inspire others too Flowers

RedSquirrel111 · 30/03/2022 18:33

@RedScarfJamjar

You have done brilliantly and I am very proud of you, you should be proud of yourself and your lovely bijou apartment. Because it's not a tiny flat, it's a Bijou apartment!
Oh I like that. Can I extend it to 'city centre bijou apartment'? Grin
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Lurkingandlearning · 30/03/2022 18:33

Well done Flowers Star

Whatagrapefruit156 · 30/03/2022 18:34

Love this!!! Well done!

MintJulia · 30/03/2022 18:36

Well done you. Enjoy every moment. Smile Wine

RedScarfJamjar · 30/03/2022 18:49

@RedSquirrel111

You certainly can! And it's not just "A" city centre Bijou apartment, it's your city centre Bijou apartment.

Because you are awesome and you did the thing!

Gruffalogrinch · 30/03/2022 18:50

Well done OP, I hope you are very happy in your city centre bijou apartment 💐

coldfeetmama · 30/03/2022 18:59

Well done ! You deserve every penny of it ! Celebrate and treat yourself 💐

RedSquirrel111 · 30/03/2022 19:54

I've celebrated by getting a pasta subscription. Not very exciting Grin
Might have to add shoes to it!

I'm just thinking of 5 years ago, renting a flat I couldn't afford trying to scrape it together on 19k. Going into work so poorly because the company didn't have sick pay and I couldn't afford to take even a day off.

Never once regretted leaving though. As they say, the best revenge is a life lived well (with a pasta subscription and new shoes)

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LadyHelenaJustina · 30/03/2022 20:40

Well done. You are resilient and awesome.

RainbowToes · 30/03/2022 21:16

This is fantastic OP!
I'm so happy for you!
Enjoy the pasta...and yes, get the shoes!

MichelleScarn · 30/03/2022 21:19

Absolutely fantastic @RedSquirrel111! Eat the pasta! Wear the shoes!!

BurgerKingAddict · 30/03/2022 21:47

Well done.
Enjoy your hard work and celebrate with your yummy pasta Smile

Cosmos123 · 30/03/2022 21:51

@RedSquirrel111

Because I can't in real life.... After 4 years of not working because, well usual story abusive ex husband. I rejoined the workforce Christmas 2016. I took first job I could get on 19k. Before marriage I'd been on 22k but always drifted somewhat. Anyway, post divorce was determined to sort myself out. 2 jobs and professional qualifications, later, I've just had my pay review and I'm on 37k. So veeeeeeerrrrry nearly double what I was on 5 years ago. Life isn't about salary and money. And I'm sure people on here still think I'm a pauper. But so bloody proud of myself. Oh, and I bought my own -smallest in the world- flat too :) all on my little own.
You go girl. Millions congratulations and a trillion pays on the back. You are an inspiration.
Cosmos123 · 30/03/2022 21:51

*pats

KeepThinking · 30/03/2022 21:54

Congratulations! You should be really proud @RedSquirrel111 well done!!

Coffeencrochet · 30/03/2022 21:55

Congrats @RedSquirrel111 you deserve it and more!