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2nd date with girl

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jamestaylor123 · 12/01/2022 15:55

I'm about to jump into a second date with a woman that I really like and would like some tips on how to make this go well?

We've planned activities like climbing a bridge (London Tower) and some exploring around the village areas.

From the first date there was instant chemistry, a lot of flirting, touching and we kissed twice so she's given me the indication that she's keen.

I'm not sure if this is a red flag in terms of some stuff that she's working on personally but she did have a few too many drinks on the first date and spilled a lot of details about rejection (was dating a guy for 3 years, he didn't make her his girlfriend and married her close friend), been rejected on a date for her ethnicity (she's Japanese and some guy said she's great only if she was white) and mentioned a lot of stuff about guys that came on strong, sent her dick pics, etc...

I want to try and make her feel comfortable as it sounds like she's a bit lonely and people have taken advantage of her...I'm assuming that might put her radar on higher

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Ovenaffray · 12/01/2022 16:01

Can I just ask - have you picked mumsnet to ask this question?

You might be better asking your friends and people who know you in real life, or Reddit where I’m sure there will be a sub Reddit for dating.

Thirdly, she’s a woman. Not a girl.

Ovenaffray · 12/01/2022 16:02

*why have you picked

ABCeasyasdohrayme · 12/01/2022 16:04

It sounds like your first date with this WOMAN went well, so just do whatever you were doing already.

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ShirleyPhallus · 12/01/2022 16:06

MN is an odd choice of place to post this…

gogohm · 12/01/2022 16:19

Try asking to move it to the dating board

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