But I don't agree that our body shape "isn't that common". It is. We are real women just the same as everything else, and actually, I never had this much trouble finding clothes to fit until about ten years ago.
I've always found it very hard. It was only about ten years or so ago that I started finding decent stuff.
Our shape ISN'T that common. Of course it's real and a lot of women have it, but it's not the most common one by a long shot. The most common shape is pear. I don't know who's more common, apples or hourglasses, but hourglasses don't form a majority of British women overall. I think apple is more common, actually. It would certainly explain why dressing is so hard. We're not unicorns or anything, but as a percentage of the population, no, we aren't the biggest group by a long shot.
The reason we should expect mass-produced, off-the-rack clothes to fit us is because we should expect the fashion industry to make clothes to fit the shape that peopleare, not the shape they'd like us to be.
But we are all different shapes. If everything fitted us, where would the pears and apples go? And hourglass, pear and apple are the bluntest, most basic categories of body shape. There's lots of variation among them.
The reason they don't is pure prejudice
It's really not and you mustn't take it personally. It's a business and they want to sell...they're not trying to make veiled judgements on you, but you can't walk into a mass produced shop and pick up something and expect it to fit like it's tailored for you.
Most women don't have my proportions because I am me, not most women. Most women don't have the proportions of ANY given single woman. It's mass produced stuff, it cannot fit everyone, you have to find the place whose core customer is your demographic.
I agree it sucks. It's hard to find stuff and then you have to pay more for alterations. But it's not personal and it shouldn't be surprising. It's mass produced, we are not most women and the apples and pears need stuff too.