I have a tempur but hate it. It feels too dense and has gone a bit lumpy.
I don’t like fluffy light pillows I like them to be firm - no feathers either! I love non feather hotel pillows but whenever I’ve ordered “hotel pillows” they’re never quite right.
I’m a side sleeper and often wake up with neck ache and tension headaches so I’m desperate to find something that is comfy and supports my back and neck properly.
It’s as elusive as the perfect pair of jeans it seems!