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“She looked at him gone out” - what region uses this phrase?

295 replies

Lunificent · 07/01/2022 20:43

My friend says it all the time but I’ve never heard anyone else say it here. I just realised her parents are from Northampton. Would it be from there?

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Ottercave · 07/01/2022 23:42

I grew up in Devon and now live in Somerset and we used the phrase ‘looked at him/her gone out’ all the time from as far back as I can remember.

HikingforScenery · 07/01/2022 23:51

I’ve lived in one of the areas mentioned above several times and have never heard the expression! Glad to learn it though

jackstini · 07/01/2022 23:56

Common in Nottinghamshire

MoonlightMedicine · 08/01/2022 00:00

I say this. In fact I said it today! Northamptonshire.

wizzler · 08/01/2022 00:31

Common in Sheffield. I also say Springbank

hellosunshineagainx · 08/01/2022 00:32

Lincolnshire here but Dads from Yorkshire and I say it

bunglebells · 08/01/2022 00:34

@Linguini

Are you mishearing?

"Going" with a silent g at the end can sound like
"gon" or "goan" "gawn" in some accents.
Many people miss off the g for words ending in ING.

GrinGrin

Nope. Heard right!

Looked at Er/Im Gone out... to look at someone as if they are a bloody idiot. South Derbyshire.

PattyPan · 08/01/2022 00:38

Thanks for those who explained what it means, I’m from Berkshire and didn’t have the foggiest!

Rillette · 08/01/2022 01:16

@LawnFever

No, my Lincolnshire Dad would use it regularly.

BlackeyedSusan · 08/01/2022 02:25

Notts.(mid/south notts family)

immersivereader · 08/01/2022 02:27

East. Lancs and never heard this

BlackeyedSusan · 08/01/2022 02:33

@PlanetNormal

Ay up me duck!

We say ‘she looked at im gone aaht’ here in t’ East Midlands. That’s Derby, Nottingham & Les-toh if yer wondrin, me duck.

Nah then gi-or will yer , Berra keep it t' yersen else them'll be tab'anging and knowing wot Weer onabahht.
JugglingJanuary · 08/01/2022 03:12

@RaskolnikovsGarret

Never heard of it at all - grew up in Manchester and live in London. Sounds good though.

Do you think it came from something like ‘she looked at him as if he had gone out of his mind’?

Yes. Like they'd gone out of their mind!

I suggested we walk there (20 miles to the pub) & she looked at me gone out.

My parents are from Oop north, a long way oop. I was brought up in the SE, but I suspect I picked it up from my friend from Leicester.

JugglingJanuary · 08/01/2022 03:17

@Talkwhilstyouwalk

Never heard it but quite like it, might look for an opportunity to drop it into conversation....
Trust me, it's not difficult!? If you have a teenager, ask them to leve their phone off all weekend, then tell someone about the conversation.
1forAll74 · 08/01/2022 03:35

Derbyshire and Staffordshire and Cheshire,, I have lived all over the place !!

DropYourSword · 08/01/2022 04:32

@itrytomakemyway

A very common phrase in the North West
I was born and bred proper north west, and have never ever heard of this expression before!
Saucery · 08/01/2022 06:55

I’ve heard it (NW). I assumed it meant that your intelligence had ‘gone out’ from behind your eyes. ‘Gawping’ used more frequently where I’m from though.

garlictwist · 08/01/2022 07:05

I am from Yorkshire and have never heard anyone say this phrase

Hotyogahotchoc · 08/01/2022 07:20

Well I'm in one of the places me turned by PPs and I've never heard it before so it sounds a bit kind some people use it all over

LoudSnoringDog · 08/01/2022 08:00

I'm in west mids and never heard this. Is it east mids?

WeAreTheHeroes · 08/01/2022 08:03

I'm from Manchester and have never heard this before. I'm middle aged. I'll either never hear it or notice it everywhere as we now live in Derbyshire. Will ask DP if he's ever heard it, he's from the East Midlands.

Fuuuuuckit · 08/01/2022 08:05

@havanesehope

Heard a lot in West Yorkshire.
Never heard it at all in 50 years in my part of West Yorkshire
Footle · 08/01/2022 08:22

@MatildaJayne , cheers my lover, that's took me back.

Robin233 · 08/01/2022 08:35

@EmmaH2022

I love finding out about regional phrases, I'm from the Midlands and also knew this one. One I found out wasn't universal was pack-up for packed lunch. Also is it mardy (for grumpy) that is regional to the Midlands?
^^^^
Yes I often confused people with Mardy - I'm from Nottinghamshire but on the Lincoln/ Yorkshire/ derby boarder - so get many slang words.

WoodenReindeer · 08/01/2022 08:42

Southern so this one is completely new to me.
Pot and jag were new to me on mn (source if all wisdom :) in the last few years!)

Springbank another one completely new to me (and I'm a teacher!) I'd work out it meant bank holiday but would probably guess the one beginning of may that's a long weekend rather than one that's part of half term!

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