My news resolution is to be more tolerant anyone want to join me?

[MintyGreenDream]

I'm 41 and getting like my df with regards to people pissing me off. People piss me off when im driving,walking in front of me slowly,men mansplaining and general stupidity.i know I sound like a cow and I want to improve myself in 2022

New years resolution

I’m in.

I had a friend/ acquaintance die in an accident this year and I an shamed to say that I realised I had put him in a category of “ not very important to my life, and possibly a bit beneath me “.
Truly awful, , I didn’t value him and his precious life.
I don’t need to have liked him more, or even seen him more. I just want to have respected him more.

So I’ve taken a deep breath and decided to really take in how amazingly human we all are. Sounds so simple and obvious, but I want to put some work in in that place.

Thanks for the invitation Minty .

I just feel irritated by people and find myself slagging them off to people and I don't know why.It makes me feel ashamed sometimes.

You shouldn't have to tolerate mansplaining which is unacceptable behaviour. Men need to stop doing it, and if you tolerate it then you're not improving yourself.

@Ohyesiam

I’m in.

I had a friend/ acquaintance die in an accident this year and I an shamed to say that I realised I had put him in a category of “ not very important to my life, and possibly a bit beneath me “.
Truly awful, , I didn’t value him and his precious life.
I don’t need to have liked him more, or even seen him more. I just want to have respected him more.

So I’ve taken a deep breath and decided to really take in how amazingly human we all are. Sounds so simple and obvious, but I want to put some work in in that place.

Thanks for the invitation Minty .

That’s a very honest and moving post.

I was going to answer NO! to this thread, because I am enjoying not giving anywhere near as many fucks as when I was younger. But actually I would like to be more tolerant of people, so I’m (half) in.