I have two. One, I hear from him once or twice a year. We're not close but then we have different personalities and living our lives in the way that is personal to us.
The other is 5 years older than me. She has narcissistic traits (diagnosed through a therapist) and when we get on, it's amazing but when we don't, its bad. I made the decision to remove the toxicity from my life 6 months ago and my life is lighter and I am honestly so much happier.