Backstory: dd had COVID over Xmas and I was working Xmas eve so we cooked meat day before whilst both of us was at home, dp had dc on Xmas eve. Xmas day we wanted a more chilled because of dd having COVID making it more comfortable for her as she was clingy and off her food.
Xmas day after breakfast I washed the bowls/plates mugs etc and dp exclaimed "really you're doing washing up today? You can leave it - it will get done"
I was thinking hmm and I replied "I wash up as I go along as normal"
Dp responded by saying "it will get done if you leave it"
I washed the rest up, after Xmas dinner I left washing up, 10pm still wasn't done so I did it. He came in kitchen and said "oh I was just about to do it" with a smirk. I said "sure" sarcastically.
So today I was petty I haven't washed up anything. So the kitchen is full of plates, bowls, baking trays, mugs, glasses, cutlery etc.
I can be petty!