I've been guilty quite a few times of spending Xmas / birthday money on the general shop / petrol etc
My birthday this year I did actually spend it on myself
I have money for Xmas now and I feel like I should really make an effort to buy myself something but there is nothing I need . If I don't spend it quick it will be spent in the supermarket and forgotten about.
I think if I gave someone money and found out it had been spent in Tesco I might be a bit peeved, I'm not sure 🤔