Just spoke to oh, we are visiting in laws on Boxing Day he thought we would be staying overnight, I thought we would come home. (We live 45 min away. )In past we have stayed at Xmas but this year their dd and family are living there so no beds plus we have a new destructive puppy. We are also stopping 29 + 30th as sil and family not there. so seems silly to stop 26th too . He is put out as this was vaguely discussed in September but has not been mentioned since be any of family! (Think he assumed I would have organise it!) anyone else had any Xmas misunderstandings this year?