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Anyway awake anxiety sky high

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amiafreakofnature · 24/12/2021 00:50

Just that really
My daughter is in hospital and they wouldn't let me stay as she's on an adult ward. I'm worried sick and irrational intrusive thoughts are flooding me

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RJnomore1 · 24/12/2021 00:51

I’m up

Fretting about non consequential things liking collecting food orders

That must be incredibly stressful. What’s wrong with her?

Ilovechocolatecoins · 24/12/2021 00:54

Oh dear. Flowers We are here for a hand hold.Your daughter is in the best place to help her. Would you like to tell us more?

amiafreakofnature · 24/12/2021 00:56

She had a terrible accident and is burnt . She is only just 17

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MiracleBaby2022 · 24/12/2021 00:56

Me too. Deep breaths - it's the only thing that works for me!

amiafreakofnature · 24/12/2021 00:58

@MiracleBaby2022

Me too. Deep breaths - it's the only thing that works for me!
What's causing your anxiety? Any trigger? It's just horrific isn't it
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MiracleBaby2022 · 24/12/2021 00:58

Oh goodness - that sounds dreadful!!

RJnomore1 · 24/12/2021 00:59

Oh no 😟 I have a 17 year old you must be worried sick. They will take such good care of her though.

Ilovechocolatecoins · 24/12/2021 01:01

Can you get a coffee there? Can you ring any relatives or friends to reassure you? No wonder you are anxious. I hope your daughter recovers well and quickly.

Mintyt · 24/12/2021 01:01

I'm awake, your daughter will receive good care, try to rest.

SantasGotABigOne · 24/12/2021 01:02

Big hugs. Shes in the right place. Will they let you go and see her later on this morning?

amiafreakofnature · 24/12/2021 01:02

Yes I can go and see her later today I just bloody hate this spiral of awful thoughts

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magicstars · 24/12/2021 01:05

Hand hold OP. The stress must be overwhelming.

She will come to no harm there- they will take excellent care of her. She's in the best possible place.

Can you ring the ward for updates & reassurance?

Lucillesbigsister · 24/12/2021 01:07

I am up too.

Sorry to hear about your daughter, that is awful and you must be so worried. Is she well enough to speak to?

MiracleBaby2022 · 24/12/2021 01:07

@amiafreakofnature oh I have PTSD and ME (and a whole lot of other things) - triggered by past trauma and extreme exhaustion. I basically became a totally different person after that, get severe stress and anxiety from literally nothing. I basically can't cope with anything - no matter how small or insignificant it is. Anxiety is just awful - before I got ill I had no idea what it even was! I'd recommend trying some breathworks - it really does help.

amiafreakofnature · 24/12/2021 15:36

Sorry about disappearing I had to go over at 2am as she was in a tizz and worried and I just needed to hold her and tell her it's all okay x

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amiafreakofnature · 24/12/2021 15:37

[quote MiracleBaby2022]@amiafreakofnature oh I have PTSD and ME (and a whole lot of other things) - triggered by past trauma and extreme exhaustion. I basically became a totally different person after that, get severe stress and anxiety from literally nothing. I basically can't cope with anything - no matter how small or insignificant it is. Anxiety is just awful - before I got ill I had no idea what it even was! I'd recommend trying some breathworks - it really does help. [/quote]
It's horrendous isn't it. Nobody can appreciate just how debilitating it is unless they experience it. I hate it

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MiracleBaby2022 · 24/12/2021 16:19

@amiafreakofnature yes the anxiety thing is horrid - it's so physical isn't it - no one would think it comes from the mind!

How is your daughter doing now?

amiafreakofnature · 24/12/2021 22:19

She's home today which is great but she's anxious herself

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MiracleBaby2022 · 24/12/2021 22:56

@amiafreakofnature have you ever tried @ breathewithjames on Instagram? Might be worth a try. I tried everything over the last few years, and it's the only thing that helps me relax

amiafreakofnature · 25/12/2021 22:21

I will have a look at that thank you
Hope you've had a good day

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