Hello my dears
Well my much younger brother (only 35) thinks he has BPD.
I'm not sure if that's right...he's speaking to professionals (at last!)
Definitely he's very unhappy.
As a very healthy, fit, no kids young man he had a v strong reaction to pandemic.
He struggles to leave the house. He struggles to do much (great job beforehand. Still employed but keeps saying he never does anywork).
Now he's often been a bit lax on replies. I'm used to that.
But now I can't seem to get hold of him at all.
He doesn't speak to our parents at all (he has reasons).
I'm in touch with his girlfriend but she does v superficial chat.
Should I just wait???