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If you got pregnant from withdrawal method

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Mandarinsatsuma · 24/11/2021 20:46

How exactly did it happen? Did he pull out and then ejaculate pretty quickly or was it already happening a bit when he came out?

Asking for a friend Wink

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Mandarinsatsuma · 24/11/2021 20:47

What if he comes out and you finish him off another way, that must be pretty safe right? 🤔

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ZAK3 · 24/11/2021 21:04

Yes I did , without Tmi I didnt really feel anything come out so actually was pretty shocked when my period was late, it basically ended in Abortion because my husband was adamant no more kids & its been a horrific time in my life so one piece of advice please dont make the same mistake as i did and use it as a contraception unless your both on the same page about it!!! Its really not reliable!

sjxoxo · 24/11/2021 21:06

I don’t think ‘pulling out’ is a tried & tested method for contraception & one hell of a gamble..!! Whichever outcome you are hoping for, it doesn’t strike me as the ideal way to begin either route…better to use a condom or agree on trying for baby! Xo

SleepingStandingUp · 24/11/2021 21:08

Well it's pre-cum isn't it? Before he ejaculated there's still some fluid that comes out (think when you're manually stimulating him) and that contains sperm

videobaby123 · 24/11/2021 21:14

@Mandarinsatsuma

What if he comes out and you finish him off another way, that must be pretty safe right? 🤔
Pre cum is a bitch lol. Use contraception if you don't want to have a baby!
videobaby123 · 24/11/2021 21:16

I'm currently pregnant with my second and my man pulled out. Turns out I was ovulating on that day too so depends on your cycle but pulling out definitely isn't reliable

Babdoc · 24/11/2021 21:18

What do you call people who use the withdrawal method of contraception?
Parents. Grin

scorcio5 · 24/11/2021 21:55

I have a 17yr old DS as a result of this contraceptive method, therefore i for one do not recommend this technique,
P.s condoms are a £1 in the £ shops

Probably a safer bet Wink

NowEvenBetter · 24/11/2021 22:21

It’s a ‘method’ for conception, people who don’t want to be impregnated use contraception.

Mandarinsatsuma · 25/11/2021 18:36

Isn't precum just before you cum though? It was only for a bit. How long before did you stop?

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Suzi888 · 25/11/2021 18:38

Hmm Unless you want a baby, do not use his method.

Purplespottedsocks · 25/11/2021 18:42

It doesn’t matter how soon he pulls it out, there is a risk of pregnancy as soon as he puts it in.

If you don’t want to get pregnant, use contraception. If you don’t want to use contraception, don’t have sex at all.

Letmesleepitoff · 25/11/2021 18:50

Not all men’s pre cum is created equal. The majority of men don’t have sperm in their pre cum, but a significant minority do. The only way of testing which camp your man falls into is by risking pregnancy or paying privately for their pre cum to be analysed for the presence of sperm.

We’ve used the withdrawal method successfully for 5 years. The two times he didn’t withdraw I fell pregnant. But we wouldn’t have been using the withdrawal method if pregnancy would have been a big issue to us.

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