Anyone need to get something off of their chest?

[SoSobored]

I just want to say, but obviously can't

Fuck you and your stupid fucking job. You self self arsehole.

Thanks! I just needed to get it out

I will never stop regretting what I did. I wake up every day and the ache is still there. I always thought I would be able to deal with it and get over it, but it's 7 years ago now and I still regret it. I'm so sad that I never had a rainbow. If I could go back in time I would definitely try again. I need a time machine. I ruined my life with the choices I made.

@SwtPeasOnEarth

thank you

@ZingDramaQueenOfSheeba
You are very welcome and loved❤

You are so lazy. Unbelievably. You expect me to do everything, (Mental as well as physical.) and when I finally say no, you get in a massive strop about it and are still sulking a week later. I don't think you realise just how much you lean on me.
Neighbour, I've never wished anyone dead before but the shit you have, and continue, to put us through...I know it's a bad thing to say but after years of it I've had enough.

Alf - you're an arrogant little shit with short man syndrome. You're not as good at your job as you think you are and you make everyone's lives more difficult.

No Alpha male in the history of all time has ever uttered the words "I'm an Alpha male", so sorry love, you've taken yourself right out of the running there.

Kindly shut your mouth and listen for once instead of regaling us with your uninteresting and irrelevant tales. You might actually learn something. And pleeeeeeease stop trying so hard to be funny by acting like a vulgar teenager while the rest of us die a little inside from secondhand embarrassment.

You looked bloody stupid at that Carol service and I properly laugh everytime I see it.

"D"H, whenever our second child leaves this house, I'll be right out the door behind her. It's not that I hate you. But in the last 20 years of marriage, every single fucking time I ever needed your support you were too busy dealing with your own feelings to so much as notice mine. I'm not going to stay and look after you when you get old, and I'm as sure as hell not going to put myself in a position where I would have to rely on your bullshit help. And by the way, although I'm blue in the face trying to tell you this, let me try one more time: the kids can tell when you can't be arsed with them, and if you don't change your attitude I doubt you'll see much of them either.

Great thread idea. I have two.

1. After everything we've been through together and alone you chose a man over the kids. However it dress it up that's what you did. I miss your kids very much but you've done that not me.

1. You've brought this break up on yourself. You killed our relationship dead and I should have ended it right then that day in august after the tragedy. You're so so immature it's staggering.

I wish my 7yo had never been born. I wish she'd show some kind of emotion when her sister is crying because she's hurt her again. I wish I didn't have to pretend to be impressed with her rubbish efforts at school. I wish i didn't have to be understanding when she's being stroppy at parties and kids who don't know her are looking like she's got 2 heads. I wish she didn't push my buttons and eventually cause me to roar at her because there's only so much I can be patient and calm. I wish I didn't have to be on anti depressants because of her behaviour. I wish I didn't have to fight for an Ed Psyc referral because she doesnt meet the criteria.

To my parents. I don't even know where to start.

Dad, you have been a selfish alcoholic all your life, and I honestly believe that you have caused your dementia. I despise you, I hate you grabbing me. I hate that I'm now expected to be your carer, when you've only ever cared for yourself all your life.

Mom, you have buried your head in the sand all your life, your Alzheimer's has happened within twelve months. You are leaning on me for everything, I don't want to be your carer, I don't want to see you every day, or talk to you on the phone every day. I hate this life, you're giving me a nervous breakdown. I want to run away. You're like two adult babies. I'm completely overwhelmed, and at my lowest.

Sometimes I wish she would actually run away when she's threatened it again.

You are an inadequate man in every sense of the word. A liar , a coward and a vile person

No I'm not talking about Boris 😂

Dear ex,

For years you treated me like the lowest option you had. You were always looking for someone better. You never loved me. Never understood me. You cheated on me. Made me feel less important than your 'amazing' ex. You made me feel like shit. Gaslighted me relentlessly. Dumped me at any moment I didn't agree/said something you didn't like. You complained about everything. Everything in your eyes I did was wrong.... however still I adored you, I was so in love. You lied to me so many times about us being together, so much so you asked me to marry you with a beautiful ring and it was all bullshit because (and I quote) 'I'm allowed to change my mind' even though I checked and double checked if it was what you wanted....

You've left me with scars, physical and mental. I've been suicidal knowing how little you thought of me. I've been so low I've not known how get through the days. I am lost.... My already low self esteem is now non existent.

I'm glad you're happy and have moved on to someone better than me .....

... I'm sadly the one still dealing with the pain and hurt of losing the man I wanted to spend the rest of my life with.

You're a cunt. You are continuing to destroy lives even though I finally managed to divorce you this year. I hope you rot in hell for what you've done, and are continuing to do to us all

My mother
Jesus-what did I ever do to you?
I know you only bred me to be a carer (to my amazing granddad) so you didn’t have to
I didn’t deserve the life you gave me
You neglected me badly
I don’t hate you,I pity you
You are a shitty Nan to your grandkids and they know it
You see,I can see your true naked colours and you know it
I’m stronger,genuine,intelligent,kind,loving and most of all I’m not you
I was meant to look after you in your old age-hahaha-your golden children sons can do that
As soon as the cash runs out,they’ll all be gone
They are only in your life for what they can get out of you
And your too narcissistic to see it

Burn in hell bitch

Dad-hope you rot too
You enabled her to the end
I’m happy now
But your too under the thumb to see it
I’m sad I can’t be your daughter
But the price was too high to pay-and she’s had more than enough out of me
I’m a fatherless daughter
But I have my own family now-and they are worth a million of you

To my in laws-I know your not here anymore D but I will carry you in my heart forever-we’ll look after L for you
I love you both so much-you are my parents too
Thank you for loving me and never taking sides
If I’m half the grandparent you guys are/where then my grandchildren will be very lucky

Multiple Sclerosis fuck you.

Wtf were you thinking?! I was in hospital with pneumonia, it was NOT the time to give a go at me because you think I own too many clothes and need to be tidier. And then to actually take some of the clothes home with you cos you "thought I wouldn't notice"! Really?!

To my "best friend" of 17 years fuck you for not caring that I am broken after losing my baby and telling me I'll be able to have another one that next time won't have be broken... Our one sided I do all the running friendship is over for good I'm done

threebeforetwo I got told the exact same thing and it made me shrivel up inside as I don't want a future pregnancy right now all I want is to still be pregnant with my baby that I lost for you too. Sorry for your loss

You’ve pushed me to the limit this year the weed money you’ve wasted the thousand pounds you didn’t need to spend but did you’ve gone off to hospital and I’m thinking as your parents are if you hadn’t off gone we’d have all gone mad, sick of your moaning grumpiness oh yes the jokey name calling I’m the bitch, slag, cum bucket because of my film crushes well we’ve never had a sex life really have you’ve got a bi tattoo on your hand now I just laugh. Oh yes I’m off next year I’ve had it.

Today is going to be hell you’ll be moaning all day because you left the hospital after only four hours knowing they were busy, you saw nurses having a well earned cup of tea and as usual you know best so left, I’ve had it just had with you, you can bloody well get on with it for all I care, no sleep again because when you came in at 4,30 this morning you wanted the bloody radio on at 7,00 I gave up finished off my bank application without your name on it for savings so I can bugger off or at least spoil myself when I want to. Oh and ffs shut up about Jeremy and Donald Jeremy was a selfish drinker who sponged off everyone. Donald hated women god help his parishioners then.

No, everyone isn’t a ‘little bit autistic’. I don’t care that Einstein had autism and didn’t talk till he was 5. It’s not a superpower. My son struggles so much and you’re invalidating what he has to go through by comparisons. He’ll likely need care for the rest of his life. It’s not a blessing. I’d take the frustrations away from him in a heartbeat.

@DubiousGoals

The communal hallway is not overflow storage for your shoes, pram, recycling, and all the other crap you can't be bothered to put away, you listen to terrible music, and your baby has a stupid name!

Same neighbours. The name too. Bristol?

I think you lied to get your job, as you're clearly thick as mince and/or have never done half of the stuff you say you can do. And when I explain (again) how to do something to you, don't question me or say oh I've never done it that way before WHEN THERES ONLY ONE WAY OF DOING IT. More people are starting to notice that you're not up to the job, and being patronising to us when we're trying to help you means that no-ones going to help you any more. And we cant wait to see how that works out for you.

You set me up for failure to manage me out and 2 days before you push me out the door I've just been offered a better job for more money. You're a company that prides itself on wellbeing and therapy and you treat your staff like a commodity. Thank you for my payout I'm going on holiday for a month.