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Is anyone else up waiting for a teenager to come home?

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rifling · 21/11/2021 02:05

My ds17 is getting a lift home from a party and isn't in or answering his phone. I'm getting really worried....

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LucentBlade · 21/11/2021 02:08

What time is he due home? yep have been there in the past

YukoandHiro · 21/11/2021 02:10

Poor you OP, I'm nowhere near that yet (I'm awake as I'm still bf my youngest who is just turned one), but I was that teenager who caused my poor mum all sorts of worry. I'm certain he's just having a brilliant time and either lost track of time or at worst managed to lose his phone as he's had a few drinks. He'll be home before you know it.
Can you read a book or watch some tv to distract yourself? I know you'll pretend to either be fast asleep or just woken up for a wee when he finally comes in :)
Xxx

rifling · 21/11/2021 02:11

Stupidly I didn't give a time as I was grateful to the parent picking him up but I don't have his number only his wife's and she is probably asleep. Sad

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rifling · 21/11/2021 02:12

I know you'll pretend to either be fast asleep or just woken up for a wee when he finally comes in
I won't this time as I am furious that his phone is off!

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bloodywhitecat · 21/11/2021 02:16

I am awake for a completely different reason but I remember how tough those teenaged nights out were. I hope you hear soon.

Maidofdishonour · 21/11/2021 02:43

I’ve been there too. My advice would be to be welcoming when he gets home. Say how relieved you are and that you will talk in the morning.

Maidofdishonour · 21/11/2021 02:43

…..then give him hell with his hangover!

WaterAndRichTea · 21/11/2021 02:46

In the morning, Wake him with the hoover, Banging and crashing and any other ‘loud’ thing you can think of

Dont let him have his hang over in peace 😂

ILikeYourButt · 21/11/2021 03:15

@WaterAndRichTea

In the morning, Wake him with the hoover, Banging and crashing and any other ‘loud’ thing you can think of

Dont let him have his hang over in peace 😂

I literally have no idea why some parents on here are so mean to their kids. Confused
MissCruellaDeVil · 21/11/2021 03:21

His phone has probably run out of battery. He will be fine, is he back yet?

YukoandHiro · 21/11/2021 07:07

Did he come home safely OP?

EishetChayil · 21/11/2021 07:09

@WaterAndRichTea

In the morning, Wake him with the hoover, Banging and crashing and any other ‘loud’ thing you can think of

Dont let him have his hang over in peace 😂

I'm always appalled when people suggest this sort of thing. It's terrible parenting.

rifling · 21/11/2021 10:20

Thank you everyone. He got in at 3am. The dad who was giving them a lift home had car problems and thought ds had told me but ds's phone had died. Of course he didn't think to ask to borrow a phone....

No hangover though! I don't think they had been drinking, at least not much. Of course, I now feel like a zombie and he's as right as rain. Thank you all for the reassurance.

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