Ive just been to high court with a very aggressive controlling ex to sort out the financial side of our divorce and now he has started be very aggressive and controlling with regard to access to our kids. I have always said I will never stop him seeing them- the currently live with me in the FMH which the police have made him move out of - they are 9 and 13 so I am so careful about their welfare, happiness and health. He demands to see them a short notice - normally late in the evening after they have had a busy school day/ sports activities and they are exhausted - then he sulks for days and then turns up at the door expecting to see them. I am exhausted trying to say to him he can see them as long as he communicates and plans through me - which he refuses to do, Any advice - I have no money to go to court - anyone help me as I am no drained ?