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sex after miscarriage

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voodoomum · 04/11/2021 16:51

so i had a D&C last Saturday (5 days ago) has anyone else been really wanting sex after? we've been told to wait 2 weeks but its literally driving me insane. Does anyone know if its safe to just orgasim without anything going in? sorry for so much detail.

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Christmasisnear · 04/11/2021 16:55

Big hugs. Sorry you had to go through that. I don't really know the answer to your question but I hope someone comes along soon to help.

I do know that, after my stillbirth, we had sex 3 weeks later because we needed that closeness again. I know they say you shouldn't but it helped us.

HeyFloof · 04/11/2021 17:27

You need to wait till you've stopped bleeding otherwise you can get an infection. That's what I was told anyway. Whilst you're bleeding after a termination/MC/birth, your cervix is open and introducing bacteria in there can cause problems.

I'm sorry about your miscarriage Flowers

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