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Come and tell me your dull and unexciting news 19: Calmly through the day

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MissConductUS · 30/10/2021 23:53

I've started a new one. Please join us and share the boring and mundane things happening in your world. It will be calming for all.

Here is the link to the prior thread:

Come and tell me your dull and unexciting news 18: Calmly through the day

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Silkieschickens · 05/12/2021 02:47

In more cheerful news I have now got my koala onesie, light up penguin and light up robin and my book Land below the Wind by Agnes Newton Keith. DH got very excited by the book so I said he could read it first so he is reading it now and DD I told about the penguin and the robin and she said she would love the penguin so that has gone to her room and little robin is with me.

Would love to give DS one but wabbit would eat it. Wearing the koala onesie.

Lemonsandlemonade · 05/12/2021 04:05

Have half caught up. The problem with the NHS in my opinion is it’s spread too thinly. The aim of it when it was set up was to offer service for everyone where they didn’t pay. This was post WW2 and in my opinion the NHS needs a modern spi @MissConductUS

Went to see Santa yesterday DS loved it. We had a lovely photo.

Lemonsandlemonade · 05/12/2021 04:06

Spin/change

Silkieschickens · 05/12/2021 04:47

Glad your DS loved Santa Lemons

Lemonsandlemonade · 05/12/2021 07:10

Your Koala onesie sounds snuggly @Silkieschickens.

Prokupatuscrakedatus · 05/12/2021 08:34

We had about 1,5 snowflakes last night more are on the way says DH.

Silkieschickens · 05/12/2021 09:26

Its raining here. DH is still asleep. I am still in bed with my koala onesie which is very snuggly but very warm esp as it is several sizes too big as my size was sold out. Been trying to do accounts and clear e-mails, cleared a few hundred and did most of accounts.

Prokupatuscrakedatus · 05/12/2021 09:56

A few hundred? Wow. (or are you like DH who never deletes anything see 'papers which are still placed around the room')

I will venture out for my test in about 45 minutes but I am no longer sure I actually need one after "isolation + 5 days" as it does not explicitly says so in the leaflet I was given.

Nydj · 05/12/2021 11:06

Good luck with today’s test @Prokupatuscrakedatus - it will be strange for you to venture out after all these days.

@Silkieschickens, I hope the treatment plan they suggest here is what you are hoping for and that you don’t have to go to France for treatment. The koala onesie sounds very cosy which is precisely why I couldn’t have one as the hot flushes still visit with annoying regularity.

I am planning on doing very little today apart from packing as am going away (within UK) for a couple of days tomorrow. An acquaintance has organised an exhibition of a few people’s art work and I am hoping to go this afternoon.

Prokupatuscrakedatus · 05/12/2021 11:22

Negative !!!!!!!!!
I will no do some houeswork ....

MissConductUS · 05/12/2021 11:42

Silkie, in my experience, most of the Brits who come here for cancer treatment are seeking therapies that aren't available at all outside the US, or they are seeking treatment from a particular doctor who is considered world-class for a fairly rare disease or form of cancer. And you're right, it is very expensive.

@Lemonsandlemonade, our healthcare system has its roots in WWII also. During the war, inflation was a problem so the government froze wages and imposed price controls. There was also a terrible labor shortage because so many people went into the military. Employers couldn't compete for workers by raising wages, so many offered medical insurance and other benefits that were not restricted by wage and price controls. After the war, most people who worked had private medical insurance and really liked it, so replacing it with a government scheme was politically untenable. Thus we are left with a patchwork of private and public insurance plans.

I am just back from my morning run/walk and am waiting for the space heater in the bathroom to warm it up before I take my shower. My ginger cat is on my lap, trying to tell me something, but I'm not sure what. I will probably go to church, since I missed last week taking DD back to uni. The CO2 cartridge on my Sodastream machine has run out, so I'll have to find a replacement later today.

I did a bit of decorating on the Christmas tree last night and it looks lovely.

Prok, congratulations on your negative test result!

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Silkieschickens · 05/12/2021 11:42

Congratulations Prok enjoy your freedom. Cake

HildaTablet · 05/12/2021 12:02

Hurrah, Prok, is this freedom at last?

We had a boring saga last night with a supermarket delivery that didn't arrive (ordered online). Had a phone message to say a driver was off sick so they couldn't bring the order, but I could just ring Customer Services to reschedule, pick up from the store, or cancel.

Well, Customer Services weren't picking up the phone, and continued not to do so until closing time. After 2 hours on hold I gave up. So I had no food, no idea what had happened to the order, or how to get it, but had been charged for it.

Long story short, I got through first thing this morning and had to drive to the shop to collect the order, as it turns out you can't reschedule a delivery except on the day it was supposed to arrive ('you needed to ring us....').
But in the meantime the automated systems had refunded my money. So I ended up having to go to a till and plonk the whole order up on the conveyor belt to be checked out as normal.

Ah, the ease and convenience of online shopping! Hmm

Prokupatuscrakedatus · 05/12/2021 12:08

Yep, freedom - I have mailed the result to the relevant mail-adress and will go in to work tomorrow!!!!

Lemonsandlemonade · 05/12/2021 19:47

Yay freedom for Prok

Went to Christmas tree light switch on which was lovely.

Is your sodastream good @MissConductUS I fancy one as I drink lots of fizzy water.

Prokupatuscrakedatus · 05/12/2021 20:21

yay - so I have:
changed the bed sheets and covers, put laundry on, cleaned the windows and put my decorations up (stars made of straw), cleaned the kitchen, made a list of all the Christmas markets currently on and baked 2 tins of biscuits with DD.
No doubt this burst of energy will leave me soon. Grin

Silkieschickens · 05/12/2021 20:40

We had similar happen too Hilda but they did not refund despite me trying a lot but then we had a Christmas order collect and pay in store and DH went to collect thought I had paid and walked out with it. Shock I messaged them but they ignored that too so we ended up even but nervous for DH to go to that shop.

mathanxiety · 05/12/2021 21:20

I want to second what HildaTablet said wrt Silkie's treatment.
Would you consider Mexico, Costa Rica, or Hungary for treatment, Silkies? There's a cash only clinic that I know of in Oklahoma City but I don't think they do oncology.
Flowers and Brew to Silkies. Fingers crossed you 'll be able to get treatment in France.

Prok glad you've been sprung from confinement. Hope there isn't too much housework to see to.

We're hoping to get to the Christkindlmarkt either during the coming week or next weekend. We won't buy the tree until about the 15th or 16th. One year we left it way too late and bought the second last tree available for a radius of about 25 miles. It was one of the Charlie Browniest trees you can imagine.

I have lost one of the gifts I bought early in the Christmas season, and I need to either wrack my brain really hard and figure out where I squirreled it away or turn the apartment upside down and inside out until I find it.

Silkieschickens · 05/12/2021 21:46

Thanks Maths Am considering anything atm though easiest would be somewhere driveable in UK so potentially a London hospital. After that next most viable is Paris as I can stay there with family or friends and I don't drive though can do taxis. Trouble is kids have to be here and so DH would need to stay here and treatment can make you very ill. Though it could be go abroad for surgery part, its difficult as kids could go in holidays but they are only single vaccinated as that's all they can get atm though will get second one in a couple of months but 12-15s there is no proof and DS won't test. I think we are also highly likely to go into lockdown soon with travel bans. It also is going to depend if adrenal is cancer or not, it started off saying it was likely to be mets but when I mentioned had an enlarged adrenal gland in 2018 on a CT the doctor was Hmm if same side (records I have its not but it does not self resolve so likely my notes are an error) unlikely to be mets as 3.5 years ago, it could be a second primary cancer or a benign condition though even that ideally needs surgery but much less urgent. Its does seem to be a rare combination so is a bit specialist. Just hoping they can get old CT, my doctor could not but they seemed confident and that by seeing the growth will show if its cancer or not and they can probably have a good idea if cancer if mets or another primary. Hopefully its benign then can stay put and get surgery. Thanks very much for thinking of me.

MissConductUS · 05/12/2021 21:58

Silkie, it could well be that your adrenal continued to grow and that's what they are seeing.

@Lemonsandlemonade, the Sodastream is brilliant. Ours is at least 12 years old and still works a treat. Get the simplest one they sell.

I've had a nap and a coffee and am about to get on our weekly family Zoom call.

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HelenaJustina · 05/12/2021 22:22

DC3 springs free from isolation at midnight today Prok congratulations on your freedom! Hope you have a productive week.

I’ve done quite a bit of Christmas shopping, I’ve just updated my list and it’s looking good. A few tricky people to go but I’m feeling on top of things for the 5th December! which is dangerous as if I take my foot of the gas it’s all downhill from here!

Prokupatuscrakedatus · 06/12/2021 17:14

First day at work - actually in the office - went well.
Health authorities phoned and apologized for the delay with regards to my final tests.
Temperatures around 0°C, no sun.

Lemonsandlemonade · 06/12/2021 18:33

Glad work went ok @Prokupatuscrakedatus

Today in work will be glad when I’m back in charge things didn’t go to plan at all.

MissConductUS · 06/12/2021 19:23

It's just a dreary, foggy day in NY.

I'm sure they are delighted to have you back at work, Prok.

Lemons, how badly have things gone off course in your absence?

I have an off-site meeting on Friday that I'll have to leave for Thursday afternoon and travel home on Saturday morning. I am not looking forward to it.

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ZZTopGuitarSolo · 06/12/2021 20:23

We're hoping to get to the Christkindlmarkt either during the coming week or next weekend.

DD went the other day and got a raclette sandwich. She said it was amazing :-)