What hurts you?

[Pleasegivemeyourwisdom]

For me, it’s being misunderstood. I hate it, but it hurts me. You?

Fibromyalgia!

My children being upset or unfairly treated.

Pretty much everything to be fair.

My children being hurt, or struggling in any way is the worst pain for me. Now one has given me a Grandchild to worry about too!

Not a lot TBH I'm pretty thick skinned. I get angry about things but rarely hurt.

Likewise my children being sad or unhappy.

Being lied to.

Honestly ? Wilful stupidity.

My ds being distressed or in pain.

My ex went abroad with the boys on my birthday 8 years in a row. The last time, we weren't there when he got home. The fact that he didn't give a toot about either of us hurt

Being dismissed, or my feelings ignored. My childhood consisted of being railroaded and told to shut up and my feelings and opinions don't matter. Any hint of that now and I have to fight back tears of pure frustration.

Injustice, and being ignored/overlooked/humiliated.

Lies and cheating

Parental alienation

A mother is only ever as happy as her least happy child.
So my children being unhappy hurts.

Any kind of cruelty whether it's towards animals or people, racism, homophobia etc

My body attacking itself - the daily pain grinds you down…

Other things are all to do with my kids, I hate seeing them, hurt, upset, sick, unhappy etc

I’m remarkably thick skinned and don’t really give a monkey’s what people say/think of me