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Can we start a thread to rant about our STBXH-es?

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Cuddlywaterfall · 21/10/2021 20:35

Decree nisi granted today so I can sort of see the light at the end of the tunnel. But my God H is driving me fucking mental. None of it significant, nothing worth bothering anyone about but arghhh I just want to vent, and I thought others might feel the same Grin.
He won't look at our shared online calendar. Then gets pissed off if he can't do something as I won't be available to look after the kids.
DC1 is mad about cars. I was trying to show enthusiasm and asked him a few questions. Cue DH asking - ooh are you buying a new car? Is your dad buying you one? Like I suddenly have access to secret money.
Watching a film with DC which is set where we live. I look something up on Google Earth - where's that? You looking at houses??
And yesterday we had an hours-long dispute on WhatsApp about how something was entered in the bloody joint calendar.
Arghhhhhjjnnn

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Sideorderofchips · 21/10/2021 20:38

Meh mine moves in with the ow this week

Can't wait for the divorce to come through.

Cuddlywaterfall · 21/10/2021 20:40

Ah @Sideorderofchips that's shit. Hope the divorce comes through soon Thanks

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Chelsea26 · 21/10/2021 20:58

Mine owes me £15k and is denying all knowledge (even though I have a email chains and a signed letter)

He’s stupid but thinks he’s clever and that is very tiresome

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Cuddlywaterfall · 21/10/2021 21:00

@Chelsea26 they're the worst.
I am trying not to think about how much money H is basically stealing from me. Lazy fucker has sat on his arse for years and is demanding half my pension as well as half the house.

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upupandawaytoday · 21/10/2021 22:12

I'm divorcing a self employed plumber who underdeclares half his earnings ... this divorce is going to be the end of me!

@Cuddlywaterfall ah yes, if I don't swap weekends as I already have plans for MY scheduled days apparently I'm being unreasonable. The hilarious thing is I offered an alternative and he responded with it doesn't fit in with his plans ... nor mine mate nor mine!

Brollywasntneededafterall · 21/10/2021 22:14

Ime karma does exist..my exh spent years trying to poison dc against me..
At 12 and 14 they went nc..
With him.
Never had any contact with him since 2015...
Fucking bliss.

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