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Added to a Whats App group and haven't responded helpppp

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easilycry · 09/10/2021 23:00

I was added to a Whats App with some colleagues (I'm new there), they added me and said 'hello [my name]' and then the conversation moved on. I didn't see it until hours later as my phone was on silent and I felt it would be awkward to send a message saying 'hey' or 'thanks for adding me' at like 8pm at night when it's kind of a work-related group.

I then forgot about it but the Whats App group is fairly active and I haven't said anything on it yet so I've been kind of ignoring it.

I'm completely over-thinking this because it's colleagues that I don't know well and some I haven't even met.

Should I send a message saying I didn't notice i had been added or had my Whats App notifications turned off so didn't see or just join in with the conversation next time it starts up?

OP posts:
Leftphalange · 09/10/2021 23:02

You're overthinking this.

Just contribute to the next conversation that starts up, or if you have something relevant to say

bluejelly · 09/10/2021 23:02

Maybe just say 'a belated hi 👋 - thanks for adding me' or something innocuous. Don't overthink it. Not tonight though, too late in the day.

Row1n · 09/10/2021 23:03

Yeah just join in when you have something to add to what they're talking about. Deep breath!

PurpleDaisies · 09/10/2021 23:03

Just join in when you’ve got something to say.

SW1amp · 09/10/2021 23:03

Do a reply to the ‘hello’ message saying ‘hi everyone, thanks [name] for adding me, and looking forward to meeting everyone soon’

You don’t need to apologise for anything
Just reply and don’t make it awkward

Strangevipers · 09/10/2021 23:03

Overthinking.

Don't worry

Join In When you can

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