Just got married in secret

[MrMrsJones]

So this morning I got married to my amazing boyfriend and we haven't told a sole, except our two neighbours.

🥰🥰🥂

Huge congratulations to you both 🍾🍾

Congratulations!! 🥳🥳

Family would be devastated if they knew

Eek. In that case, I’d consider telling them somehow so they can get over it… I’ve been to three weddings that were actually vow renewals and it came out… Maybe send cards and say you’re looking forward to celebrating it together next year?

It’s absolutely your call, but in my experience, people are not shy about looking up wedding licenses online etc. We got about four cards after our wedding with our wedding certificate in

Congratulations! We’re doing this in December! Just us and two witnesses. So excited!

This is how I wanna do it. Just us two. No fuss.

Congratulations. You've saved a fortune and your sanity!

You might want to consider saying something. I've been to a wedding with a similar set up. It was quite obvious that it wasn't a legal wedding but more of an exchanging of vows from the words used by the officiant. If you do decide to hide it you might want to look carefully at the wording of the ceremony.

For the one I went to, the bride and groom told people in advance that they'd had the legal wedding bit and we were all still thrilled to be invited to celebrate with them. It felt as much like a wedding as any other.

You haven’t “told a sole” except your neigbbours?!
I want to hear more about these fish who live next door!

We had our big wedding celebration after our official legal wedding (although quite soon after). It was a fantastic day and everyone loved it, but it was quite obvious to anyone actually listening to the wording that it was a blessing of an existing marriage rather than a wedding. If you're planning on having a public celebration later, you'll need to let guests know at some point or they'll get a shock in the middle of the ceremony!

Many congratulations to you both , no need to correct @Babdoc, we all understood

Congratulations! Who were your witnesses? Your neighbours? I'd want a tiny wedding (as in the two of us) if we ever did it, but don't fancy dragging strangers in off the street, or the hassle of choosing which two people to invite.

I understand you not telling a sole but have you told any plaice?

Sorry terrible joke! Congratulations! Enjoy this time.

How exciting!! Congratulations.

Congratulations to you both 💐🥂

Sorry dyslexic, long nails for the wedding and passenger in a car while having contacts in.

Sole, soul?? No idea

Anyway our witnesses were our two neighbours

Congratulations to you both 🥂🍾

We have a year to sort out the wording, good point though.

TBH if people find out on the day, no big deal.

We can explain the situation and why we needed to get married early. Although it's no one else business really and they get a good party lol

Congratulations i wish I had done that xx

Congratulations 🥂🍾. We eloped 30 years ago. Never regretted it.

Congratulations! I love being married, hope you do too (also hope your DH is wrong about his mortality!)

I love him and he will be the last person I spend my life with.

I am 50, he is 54

We did the same. Congratulations

Oh marrying in secret is my dream! Congrats op!

I’d tell them now. I’d be furious to find out I’d taken time, effort and money to go to what I thought was a wedding but was actually fake. Very different if people know it’s a vow renewal, although just 12 months later may wonder why they need renewing.

Congratulations! And hes not your boyfriend he's your husband

Lovely lovely news

Have a long and happy life together ❤