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2 job offers, to go with head or heart?

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Ivchangedmynameforthis · 04/10/2021 19:46

Recently started a new job in a field iv always wanted to be in. Literally my dream job and I absolutely love it. The pay is notoriously dreadful but there are some minor progression routes. Prior to taking this job I applied for another job in a totally different sector never thinking I would actually get it (but I did) Much better money, almost double the salary, much better progression BUT I don't want it and feel sick at the thought of leaving my lovely job. In my position what would you do?

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KaybeeL · 04/10/2021 19:48

If you can manage on the salary I'd 100% stay with dream job. Money isn't everything and sounds like you love it! xx

MrPanks · 04/10/2021 19:49

Go with your heart if you can afford to!

tedsletterofthelaw · 04/10/2021 19:49

Stay in your dream job!

I've been there, made the wrong decision and I was miserable and regretted it immensely.

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Kittykatmacbill · 04/10/2021 19:49

As above if you can afford stick with what you love, I wish I could find a job I love.

Redtartanshoes · 04/10/2021 19:52

Double is a lot….

PeonyTime · 04/10/2021 19:55

What does the uplift in salary give you? 5* in the Maldives rather than ibiza? Follow your heart. But if it's the difference between being able to put the heating on, or wearing a second jumper, you need to follow your head. Only you can decide where the cross over point is, because reality is probably between 2 extremes!

Ivchangedmynameforthis · 04/10/2021 19:57

Thanks all. I think I knew the answer and you have all confirmed it. @Redtartanshoes it sounds a lot but the salary from the job I currently have is just so pitiful that its not mega bucks really.

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Ivchangedmynameforthis · 04/10/2021 19:59

@PeonyTime we have two incomes and my dream job is the first time I have worked full time since my DC were born so maybe more Blackpool than ibiza for a while but absolutely can afford heating, bills, shopping etc on my wage.

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rhowton · 04/10/2021 20:08

I'm so money orientated that I would have to take the double pay... if you don't, hats off to you...

Ivchangedmynameforthis · 04/10/2021 21:27

You can't miss what you have never had is the way I am looking at it. Its such a hard decision.

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LorenzoVonMatterhorn · 04/10/2021 21:30

Id take the double the money job because it is more than what money you have now, pension and saving is also important.

user1493494961 · 04/10/2021 21:34

Stay in your dream job.

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