Ex hasn’t seen DC or paid any maintenance in years. I keep in touch with his parents for DC sake and visited them today. When I was leaving I found a bank card on the ground and it turned out to be Ex’s. I handed it over to his mum. But as I did the thought went through my mind that I should have bloody taken it to Asda and done a small grocery shop using the contactless tap option. I wonder if he’d have the nerve to complain 