I mean we have had the chat about marriage and babies and he has said these are things he 100% wants. I am 28 and he is 32. I have had baby on the brain for at least 3 years. I swear something maternal inside me is getting stronger and stronger as time goes on.
We have been together 6 years but I just feel like he is a bit.. no rush which I understood when he hadn't even turned 30. He has agreed I should come off my pill when our new house goes through but he just doesn't seem as super keen and excited or as eager as me. I am trying to control myself by not going on about it but I just want it to happen now, I want a family. I dont want to move in our new house and him again say let's not rush. I have a close friend who has experienced loss and a friend who is struggling to get pregnant which makes me think what if it doesn't happen at all. He has anxiety around change and isn't enjoying his job as much as usual at the minute so that doesn't help. What can I say to encourage him.