Bridesmaid gifts

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Please could you help with ideas of what to buy my two adult bridesmaids? I also want to get one of them a little extra without being obvious as she ended up organising my hen do with me whilst the other one didn't. It's a long story but she went funny over the lockdown. There's another thread on here about it. She's okay now but she wasn't there to buy my dress or arrange the hen do so I want to show my appreciation for the one who was without it being obvious. Thank you.

I was going to get the one who came to the make up trial the lipstick the make up artist used so she can do it herself

What do you mean, “she went funny”?

That sounds like to me that she suffered mental health problems related to lockdown so can’t you just get them both the same and get your other friend a bottle of her favourite spirit and give it to her separately as a thank you.

I’m sure your less helpful friend would rather have not ‘gone funny over lockdown’. And if you plan on getting them the same thing but one a bit more, then yes it will be obvious.

As for thank you gift ideas. A bottle of Prosecco, a bracelet or earings to wear on the day. A pretty robe to wear while getting their hair and make up done.

Thank you. She was actually really horrible to me at times and blocked me after ghosting me for a while so if it wasn't for the other one I would've been utterly lost. I've ordered them both a ted Baker necklace but ordered the other one a matching bracelet which I will give to her before privately. I hope this sounds ok.