DM has dementia. She is getting worse by the day.
She has 3 children who all have POA for health and finance.
Son 1(64) lives about 4 miles away he has spleen cancer and other health problems. Has a wife, children and grandchildren.
Daughter (61) lives about 15 miles away she has breast cancer and other health problems. Has husband, children, grandchildren and Mil.
Son 2(52) lives within a mile from her he has no health problems. Single has adult children who he doesn't see very often.
That's the scene.
Son 1 and Daughter want either carers go in or DM needs to go into a home. She has plenty of money to pay for either.
Son 2 is adamant that she stays in her own home and no carers are to go in.
He is making the other 2 feel guilty in not helping to take care of her.
As it's 2 against 1 can or should we over rule him. We are trying not to fall out about this situation.