Child over 3. Oh why is he not potty trained ? Ben is. Oh he's 3 whys he still got a bottle. He's 3 why is he dropping food on the floor he should have out grown it by now. Why he kicking his shoes off. Whys he in a buggy Bla bla bla.
This child may have been through a difficult time. Or he could have special needs or development problem that has not been diagnosed yet. Or it could well be that he's just a little late and once he's at nursery he may just out grow theses things naturally.
What I do know though is the world's not going to end.