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Wow that Stephen Bear really is vile.....

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Meltinthemiddle · 09/08/2021 21:47

Wondered why he was trending on twitter and stumbled across the video he posted on his account. Wish I never saw it now gross. If a bloke did that to me I'd bite his dick off! What the hell does she see in him.

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SteveArnottsWaistcoat · 10/08/2021 10:06

I don’t even know who he was until I had the misfortune of randomly clicking on this thread...now I’ve seen it all. He’s quite a revolting creature! There’s definitely something not right about him. You can actually see it in his eyes.

But, how the fuck have Twitter left that up? They ban people for disputing Covid vaccines yet that is ok?

Mochudubh · 10/08/2021 10:37

@AlternativePerspective

I’ve never heard of him and have no inclination to find out any more about him.

But why are people watching this video? Even watching it to be outraged by it you’re giving it clicks.

People need to stop clicking on this vile shit and spreading it around, even if you want to do so because you’re disgusted by it. If you spread that video it just gains more traction because not everyone who sees it is going to be as outraged as you are.

Stop clicking on the bloody thing, the less people who do, the less publicity lowlife like him (whoever he is) get.

I agree. I've no idea who he is and have no intention of Googling him and giving him the clicks.
ComeonJulia · 10/08/2021 10:39

The video is still up. Hopefully it’ll go against him in his upcoming revenge porn court case.

I have no idea how he become famous but he is one of the most vile, sickening individuals I’ve ever come across.

TheWeeDonkey · 10/08/2021 10:42

@KhalliWhalli

You can put whatever you like on Twitter. Except saying that ‘transwomen are men’, which will get you banned for life Hmm.
Twitter is a cesspit. You can share porn and very dodgy images of what I would call rape/abuse. You can have conversations about what age children are at their sexiest. You can be as racist as you like, but you cannot define or speak up for women.
ComeonJulia · 10/08/2021 10:43

This is how he speaks about his girlfriend. How degrading, how does she think he loves her? Her parents @ must be raging.

Wow that Stephen Bear really is vile.....
UneFoisAuChalet · 10/08/2021 10:51

God he’s absolutely vile. I fear for young women living with all this porn shit. Imagine believing that a guy ramming his cock down your throat is normal sex.

Marriedtothesilverfox · 10/08/2021 10:56

@Meltinthemiddle

Apparently the revenge porn was with Georgia Harrison from love island. Let's hope he gets a prison sentence 🤞
I really hope he gets prison. Vile creature
HeronLanyon · 10/08/2021 10:57

I’ve seen him on big brother and the challenge. Always thought he was some form of sociopath. Really vile to women.

Marriedtothesilverfox · 10/08/2021 10:57

@UneFoisAuChalet

God he’s absolutely vile. I fear for young women living with all this porn shit. Imagine believing that a guy ramming his cock down your throat is normal sex.
I’d bite him
CuriousaboutSamphire · 10/08/2021 11:01

Ooh! He's living his best life isn't he?

How the hell did he worm his way into s'lebness in the first place?

Another hoping he gets a decent sentence for his previous vileness. Something has to happen to show young women that they don't have to accept such behaviour and young men that it is utterly unacceptable!

ComeonJulia · 10/08/2021 11:03

Apparently his girlfriend has replied saying people must have a boring sex life. No love, just not an abusive, degrading one.

longwayoff · 10/08/2021 11:15

Never heard of him. Googled and wish I hadn't. People choose to spend time with him? No accounting for taste. Zlebworld.

Sonofabiscuit · 10/08/2021 11:34

I can't belive his girlfriend doesn't have family or friends who are horrified by this and try and talk sense to her .
Hate to think their ok with it as he's a "celeb" in the lossest sense.
I hope his ex's solicitor will have screen shoots of it all.love to see this vile man explain in court .

TenPenceMix · 10/08/2021 11:36

It was so obvious he was trying to degrade her further. Disgusting, these men that do this wouldn't know what a proper man looks and behaves like.

MyGrassIsBrowner · 10/08/2021 11:49

She's as vile as he is, her caption on the video on her Twitter was 'I only wanted to brush my teeth 🤭' though part of me does feel sorry for her she's obviously been completely brainwashed by this phsycopath. Urgh.

longwayoff · 10/08/2021 12:21

I haven't seen this, nor shall I, but isn't it still a criminal offence to publish and distribute obscene images? Hope so and hope someone reports it to police if so.

petridishmystery · 10/08/2021 12:24

@UneFoisAuChalet

God he’s absolutely vile. I fear for young women living with all this porn shit. Imagine believing that a guy ramming his cock down your throat is normal sex.
Yes this is one thing I hate about porn - are there women out there who genuinely enjoy getting their throat rammed, yeah probably, but men and boys are seeing videos like this and thinking it’s normal and thinking most women will genuinely want to do this. It terrifies me tbh, mainstream porn has never exactly been kind towards women but it seems like it’s just getting more and more violent and degrading and more non-mainstream acts are being peddled as the norm.
Mydogsbetterthanyourdog · 10/08/2021 13:36

@AlternativePerspective

I’ve never heard of him and have no inclination to find out any more about him.

But why are people watching this video? Even watching it to be outraged by it you’re giving it clicks.

People need to stop clicking on this vile shit and spreading it around, even if you want to do so because you’re disgusted by it. If you spread that video it just gains more traction because not everyone who sees it is going to be as outraged as you are.

Stop clicking on the bloody thing, the less people who do, the less publicity lowlife like him (whoever he is) get.

People aren't clicking on the video, I saw he was trending on Twitter on Sunday night, by clicking on that took you straight to the video. Absolutely vile
AliceMcK · 10/08/2021 13:58

Just looked him up. He sounds disgusting 🤮

JudyGemstone · 10/08/2021 14:05

@Waxonwaxoff0

He is a narcissist and a sociopath.
Massively overused terms but in his case I actually agree.

Caught a couple of episodes of him on some shit tattoo programme with Charlotte someone and he was utterly vile and abusive. Made my skin crawl.

LactoseTheIntolerant · 10/08/2021 14:15

He is utterly vile and overtly narcissistic. He would be thrilled if he knew there was a thread discussing him, the best punishment is to completely ignore anything he's in and not give him the air time.

knittingaddict · 10/08/2021 17:41

@Stuffedcrustpizza1

I’ve always thought he’s a closet homosexual and he tries to mask this by acting in this manner
I just googled him because I had no idea who he is. He definitely gives off gay vibes in his photos, but I guess that could be the narcissism showing.
knittingaddict · 10/08/2021 17:42

Just to be clear to a previous person that I haven't clicked on the video and have no intentions of doing so.

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Meltinthemiddle · 10/08/2021 19:13

He's gf obviously is young and nieve. I'm sorry if you had any self respect or self esteem there would be no way I'd let someone say that about me! It may all just be show though as they seem desperate for money and trying to push for subscribers.

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FrangipaniDeLaSqueegeeMop · 11/08/2021 01:06

Well apparently because it was filmed and published in Turkey he could get 4 years in a Turkish jail as it's been reported to the police there.

So fingers crossed on that one!