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Restaurant portion sizes are huge

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Paq · 31/07/2021 22:05

Does anyone else find this? Went to a pub/restaurant last night and the portion sizes were insane. I managed a third of my salad, brought the rest home and shared it with DH for lunch today. DD got through half her curry and 6'1" hollow legged DH just about managed to finish his risotto but then felt overstuffed all night.

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grasstreeleaf · 03/08/2021 18:22

Sorry bold fail.

UntilYourNextHairBrainedScheme · 03/08/2021 18:28

grasstreeleaf perhaps people don't want something vaguely unsatisfactory (a pie lid without the rest of the pie pastry) regularly - they want the meal they ordered (an actual pie), but eat it rarely.

In the end there are plenty of restaurants serving high quality food in small portions with a business model based on three courses, wine and coffee and a high per head spend.

There are also restaurants serving big portions of traditional "pub food" or carbohydrate heavy, cheaper food, with a business model of mass catering and quicker turn around per table or of selling a lot of drinks. Sometimes those places do have a limited light bites/ smaller appetite menu, a children's menu of junk deliberately not meant to appeal to adults and often restricted to under 12s, and a starter menu, but it doesn't make economic sense for them to offer the full menu as half portions as discussed already.

Obviously there are lots of other restaurant types too.

Customers just need to pick the right restaurant for them, not expect restaurants to provide half portions of entire menus which will reduce their already usually tight profit margin if offered cheaply, or be considered poor value and provoke complaints if priced close to full standard portions.

omgthepain · 03/08/2021 18:32

Who on earth brings home food from restaurants "for the next day"
🤮
Like old people at funerals shoving sandwiches in their bags

That's just revolting

grasstreeleaf · 03/08/2021 18:36

grasstreeleaf perhaps people don't want something vaguely unsatisfactory (a pie lid without the rest of the pie pastry) regularly - they want the meal they ordered (an actual pie), but eat it rarely.

And perhaps, like me they do. I often think fully enclosed pies don't taste as good, the pastry turns to stodge underneath as the gravy melts into it.

Sometimes those places do have a limited light bites/ smaller appetite menu, a children's menu of junk deliberately not meant to appeal to adults and often restricted to under 12s, and a starter menu, but it doesn't make economic sense for them to offer the full menu as half portions as discussed already.

Yes and typically the lite bites are aimed towards pensioners. I just think it is rather dysfunctional, why as a nation do we think it acceptable to offer only junk to children and smaller meals only to pensioners? Why not just have different meals which anyone can chose to have?

to provide half portions of entire menus which will reduce their already usually tight profit margin if offered cheaply, or be considered poor value and provoke complaints if priced close to full standard portions.

People could eat out twice as often if the meal had a more normal calorific load and as for higher preparation time a lot of the extra salad a veg comes preprepared anyway.

PurpleDaisies · 03/08/2021 18:52

@grasstreeleaf

@PurpleDaisies

I’m a bloody size eight thank you very much. I cook and eat well most of the time at home. I just want a proper pie and a mountain of mash when I’m out.

Ditto apart from the way you like your pie. You said,

Some meals just aren’t built to be healthy. They’re made to be eaten rarely.

The meals I outlined could be eaten regularly without having to adjust your eating or exercise. to account for the extra.

You said you wanted a quarter of a portion of mash and to replace it with veg. That’s not what I was saying so I don’t see how you can be agreeing with everything I said apart from the pie.

Why are you obsessed with every single meal having to be healthy? I don’t mind eating more healthily on some days so I can eat less healthily on others without putting weight on. That is what a healthy balanced diet is to me. I don’t want to deny myself a proper pie so I can eat something less good more regularly. You really don’t seem to get this.

PurpleDaisies · 03/08/2021 18:54

to provide half portions of entire menus which will reduce their already usually tight profit margin if offered cheaply, or be considered poor value and provoke complaints if priced close to full standard portions.

People could eat out twice as often if the meal had a more normal calorific load and as for higher preparation time a lot of the extra salad a veg comes preprepared anyway.

Do you really think it’s calories and health limiting how often most people eat out? They won’t eat out twice as often if the meals have half the calories.

SquirryTheSquirrel · 03/08/2021 18:58

@omgthepain

Who on earth brings home food from restaurants "for the next day" 🤮 Like old people at funerals shoving sandwiches in their bags

That's just revolting

I used to take any suitable leftovers home for the dog, when I had one.
grasstreeleaf · 03/08/2021 18:58

@PurpleDaisies

I meant I'm a size 8 too.

That is what a healthy balanced diet is to me. I don’t want to deny myself a proper pie so I can eat something less good more regularly. You really don’t seem to get this.

A healthy balanced diet to me includes a range of foods. There isn't a single type of food I believe can't be incorporated into a healthy diet. I just don't believe in eating calorie load which far exceeds my needs for a day. I also dispute is that the pie I described would be less good.

FreshFreesias · 03/08/2021 19:04

I agree. It’s so wasteful. However great that you got a doggie bag - that’s what I do.

FreshFreesias · 03/08/2021 19:05

@omgthepain It must be great being so rich that you can afford to waste food. Don’t be such a snob.

Paq · 03/08/2021 19:12

We're staying at a campsite and just had two portions of paella between the three of us from the visiting food van. It was the perfect amount of food.

I think in 50 years time, when we have solved the obesity crisis, we will look back in amused horror at the size of restaurant meals.

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EspressoDoubleShot · 03/08/2021 19:15

Salad and veg is not cheaper than frozen fries or dried pasta and the fresh food has spoilage and short shelf life compared to fries and dry pasta

Multiple studies attest in domestic settings it’s cheaper to buy frozen & chilled than fresh salad and vegetables. The salad and veg have spoilage. Fresh salad is relatively costly So when those on a budget chose frozen and chilled they’re actually making economic sense.

EspressoDoubleShot · 03/08/2021 19:19

No I don’t necessarily think we will look back agog at all establishments, some yes. All no

There is a lot of hyperbole and competitive over descriptions about portion sizes that last days and feed 3 adults . Portion was So big it took a wheelbarrow to get home … WWE champion husband he could not finish it, nor could the iron man candidate

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 03/08/2021 19:21

I like both sorts of pie - the casserole with a pastry lid, and the fully-enclosed-in pastry pie. I tend to just have veg with a pie, instead of potatoes too.

PrincessKaguya · 03/08/2021 19:36

@omgthepain

Who on earth brings home food from restaurants "for the next day" 🤮 Like old people at funerals shoving sandwiches in their bags

That's just revolting

Respect for food and people's work is revolting? You clearly never went to bed hungry, you might have appreciated it more.
EspressoDoubleShot · 03/08/2021 19:42

I’ve taken food home and the wine too

grasstreeleaf · 03/08/2021 20:16

Multiple studies attest in domestic settings it’s cheaper to buy frozen & chilled than fresh salad and vegetables. The salad and veg have spoilage. Fresh salad is relatively costly So when those on a budget chose frozen and chilled they’re actually making economic sense.

I'm not averse to frozen vegetables as part of my meal. You can get all sorts of veg frozen these days.Smile

grasstreeleaf · 03/08/2021 20:17

And our Indian restaurant serves copious amounts of salad free with each starter. Smile

grasstreeleaf · 03/08/2021 20:19

I find buying whole salad vegetables much cheaper than bagged salads too. With the right kit, including a good salad spinner it really doesn't take much prep.

grasstreeleaf · 03/08/2021 20:20

Whole salad keeps longer too.

grasstreeleaf · 03/08/2021 20:40

Do you really think it’s calories and health limiting how often most people eat out? They won’t eat out twice as often if the meals have half the calories.

You also said this:

Some meals just aren’t built to be healthy. They’re made to be eaten rarely.

So if you've eaten a main from your local pub that you like that and is supposed, according to you, to be eaten rarely what do you choose to eat a day or so later when everyone else wants to eat out again?

And if you only eat out rarely why do you consider your views more indicative of customer's tastes than mine?

grasstreeleaf · 03/08/2021 20:41

Last post @PurpleDaisies

LolaSmiles · 03/08/2021 20:43

This thread is hilarious. As if we've hit the point where now history is going to judge people of the 2000s poorly and be appalled by the foods people ate in restaurants. Grin

26 pages in and it's still why posters who've admitted having to get their own hangups tell everyone else we should eat like them.

PurpleDaisies · 03/08/2021 21:00

So if you've eaten a main from your local pub that you like that and is supposed, according to you, to be eaten rarely what do you choose to eat a day or so later when everyone else wants to eat out again?

I would still choose to eat whatever I wanted. Over the course of a month, I would eat out no more than two or three times. Whether that’s twice in the same week or spread out more evenly doesn’t matter to me.

I know about customer’s tastes having worked in restaurants over a lot of years.

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