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On a scale of it will be fine to totally fucked how bad it this?

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fortifiedwithtea · 27/07/2021 21:56

I am 55 years old. I have been complaining of pain for years. But 18 months ago the pain suddenly got worse as in more widespread. I felt ill. The doctor did some blood tests. Nothing came of it.

I continued as I was until Davina McCall did that programme on the menopause. That’s me I thought. Had another phone gp call. But the go said he wanted to rule out arthritis before recommending HRT.

I delayed the blood test until I could get a blood test done with my daughter. We both have disability so kill 2 birds with one stone.

Daughter’s gp rang her last Monday, And advised her course of treatment. As thursday I rang for my results confident nothing heard meant negative. Well Who ever I spoke to told me apart from low Vit D and pain markers up no problem. Great I thought have my holiday and arrange for HRT appoints when I get back.

However , today is our first full day of our holiday and I got a call from a gp at our surgery.

Things are definitely not fine. Blood test shows a protein which indicates bone cancer. I may have to fly back early. Its really urgent. Doctor thinks I will need a bone marrow biopsy and bone scans.

Oh fuck!

OP posts:
Mydogisagentleman · 09/08/2021 15:45

Yet more positive thoughts from Norfolk

PennyRoyal · 09/08/2021 17:41

Hoping today has been kind to you.

TheBestCandidateByFar · 09/08/2021 20:40

Really hope you're okay this evening OP

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LostArcher · 09/08/2021 21:46

Just wishing you love and strength. Waiting for test results is the worst. Any treatment is much easier to deal with than the waiting stress. Sending virtual hugs.

minitwister · 09/08/2021 22:42

Hope you're ok this evening, thinking of you x

daisie30 · 10/08/2021 10:42

Wishing you the best of luck & positive vibes 🌻

DaveGrohlsTeeth · 10/08/2021 11:49

How are you today, @fortifiedwithtea?

TheVolturi · 10/08/2021 12:12

Really hoping that you are OK! Flowers

dancingbroccoli · 10/08/2021 12:49

Sending positive thoughts your way OP. Hope you are ok

FuckYouCorona · 10/08/2021 15:46

How are you OP? Flowers

fortifiedwithtea · 10/08/2021 16:06

Hi, yesterday was the worst and then the best of the NHS.
By yesterday morning I was going out of my mind with worry, I was even shaking. So I rang the surgery even though they say not to before 4.00pm. In this case a negative would have the worse news but they wouldn’t have known that without the back story.

Receptionist told me the results had arrived but nobody available to explain them. Told me to phone next day at 8.00am for a same day apt. So not great but I resigned myself to not knowing.

However mid afternoon the doctor who requested the test rang, even though it was his day off. What an absolute saint! Looks positive for MGUS but he wants haematology to confirm. He will phone again once he knows for sure. Hoping to finally know within the next week or two. Certainly getting a less urgent vibe now it looks like the lesser of two evils.

And I slept properly last night.

OP posts:
MyOtherProfile · 10/08/2021 16:09

Oh that sounds hopeful. What a brilliant doctor!

IGoWalkingAfterMidnight · 10/08/2021 16:10

💐 Glad you had a better night’s sleep and that you’ve had better news. 🍀 Wishing you luck for treatment x

unidentifed · 10/08/2021 16:22

Amazing news OP! Your dr is wonderful!!

Badgersdrift · 10/08/2021 16:31

Sorry about your diagnosis op but glad to hear your gp.is decent and the outcome is not quite as bad as you feared Flowers

SheldonesqueTheBstard · 10/08/2021 16:34

tea

🌻 x

CormoranStrike · 10/08/2021 17:07

Oh I am glad for you OP - still a shock, but the better of the two. Flowers Cake and sleep for you.

LivingInABuildingSite · 10/08/2021 17:09

Glad (if that’s right) that it’s leaning more towards MGUS.

Do keep following up on the pain though and whether it’s connected or not.

halfhope · 10/08/2021 17:17

fortified I'm so relieved for you and I hope the follow-up confirms MGUS. You poor poor thing being given the run around.

GrumpyMiddleAgedWoman · 10/08/2021 17:44

That's a brighter outlook, OP. What a relief for you.

TheBestCandidateByFar · 10/08/2021 18:32

Your doctor is a brilliant one. I'm so glad you slept better.

MuddyStiletto · 10/08/2021 18:35

Glad you heard something from them Flowers

2018SoFarSoGreat · 10/08/2021 18:57

So glad you have a more positive, if lesser of two evils, outcome. I do so hope that it is confirmed and then treatment path clarified. Then you can have lots more good sleeps. 💐

TheVolturi · 10/08/2021 20:38

That is a much better outlook! Relief!

FuckYouCorona · 10/08/2021 21:47

Such a relief. Flowers