Meet the Other Phone. Only the apps you allow.

Meet the Other Phone.
Only the apps you allow.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Chat

Join the discussion and chat with other Mumsnetters about everyday life, relationships and parenting.

Cash wedding present?

12 replies

LacksAnyImaginationAtAll · 27/07/2021 13:58

Any thoughts on the current going rate for cash wedding presents as an evening guest? Not a free bar so I thought maybe £40? I know some people don't like giving cash as a present, but it's what the couple have asked for and I don't really mind. My DP isn't invited as numbers are too tight, so it's just from one person.

OP posts:
Miarara · 27/07/2021 14:14

Depends where, but as an average from ours (6 yrs ago) most of our evening guests gave £20, most day guests gave about £50pp

LacksAnyImaginationAtAll · 27/07/2021 14:46

Thanks @Miarara!

OP posts:
IceCreamAndCandyfloss · 27/07/2021 15:59

£40 seems very high for just the evening do especially as no plus one.

Interested in this thread?

Then you might like threads about this subject:

reluctantbrit · 27/07/2021 16:22

For evening only I would give £25.

burnoutbabe · 27/07/2021 16:26

£20 for evening max. The ones I have Vern to of later had zero food, buy your own drinks and no where to even sit down.

I don't bother now unless it's very local.

thefourgp · 27/07/2021 16:27

£20 for an evening invitation

MiddleParking · 27/07/2021 16:28

I’d say £30 for an evening invitation without your partner.

Maggiesfarm · 27/07/2021 16:31

I think it is a very good idea and the bride and groom will be extremely pleased to receive cash.

Put it in a card and either give it them or to someone they have designated to look after cards (I've been to a wedding where that was done, a chap had a bag and kept all cards etc safe for them).

Or else send them a cheque beforehand but - cash is always welcome. £40 sounds fine too.

stopknockingonmydoor · 27/07/2021 16:33

Another one saying £20-25 here Smile

For evening only and no plus one I think that's a perfectly good amount.

gogohm · 27/07/2021 16:41

20-25 seems fine for evening only no plus one unless you are very close (unlikely for evening only)

burnoutbabe · 27/07/2021 18:02

Why more if you get a plus one for the evening? Generally there is now no buffet so it doesn't cost anymore for them to invite one or 2.

Jerseygirl12 · 27/07/2021 18:03

£20

New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Swipe left for the next trending thread