I realise how old fashioned I sound, I did have male friends when I was younger but a new friend seems different in middle age.
I have a work colleague I know has a lot of free time and we get on well. I am not at all attracted to him....would he think I am attracted to him if I suggest hanging out?
I have no reason to think he is attracted to me... But I know he wants a relationship and I don't think he is very particular!