Just that really. I was preparing vegetables having worked 2 nightshifts, he was sitting in the garden just passing time listening to music before the football. I was seething inside as my grandson is coming tomorrow and likes to kick a ball on the grass. Yes I could have just asked but rather than being perceived as a nag ( as this is HIS day, the footies coming on and he has worked all week......) I concentrated on mind power and he's happily trotting up and down with the lawnmower because it was his idea!!!