I'm having a strong alcoholic beverage right now and here's why

[LazyMareofEastown]

Drink: Gin Martini.

Reason: Today I had a proper grown up, sit down at a table conversation (like we're in the Godfather) with my ex to discuss getting him off my mortgage. We are 4 years post-separation (long story) and I genuinely can't describe how much I was dreading this conversation (borderline panic attacks) but am actually tearful at how mature and sensible we were.

He's happy with my offer (I'm not rich, it's a very modest offer - but he has big debts). My tiny terraced house will now be mine and my DC's alone. I can't believe it.

Anyone else celebrating a victory tonight?

Enjoy. You deserve it.

I'm only celebrating that I got through the week.
Yours is well deserving of a few very strong drinks.
How wonderful and brave you are.
Cheers!!

Well done you and congratulations- it must be a lovely feeling.

That is awesome, Mare.

I’m having a strong alcoholic beverage because I’ve been dealing with almost-teens sleepover politics hosting for HOURS and they finally seem happy enough I can leave them to it. Bloody hell. Not sure if it’s personalities/group dynamics, lack of practice at social skills (them & me) or just plain normal!

Congrats OP 🍸 !!

I cannot wait until I am in your position. The future must feel bright ☀️

I am now, I'm celebrating yours!
well done!

here it is, to you!

That is brilliant- enjoy the beverage of your choice and congratulations 🥃🍸

Thanks all - I'm having a proper cry just because you've been nice to me 🥺. It's been so fraught for the last few weeks but I just feel a (tentative) sense of release now.

Zing I love your lights 💙💚💜💛

NoSquirrels - how are the negotiations going now?

Meh are you in a similar situation??

DrWank thank you 🌸 Tell us about your week?

I admit it's quite dusty here

fucking well done mate and him too.
extra points for mentioning the Godfather, of course🤣

re lights. thanks! they are from IKEA (can look it up if you want) and we have them on permanently. they make me feel happy

Well done OP, your home with be all yours and that's an amazing feeling, happened to me after divorce a few years ago.
@ZingDramaQueenOfSheeba I love your kitchen too - but most of all I love your nails.

That's such good news OP, bet it's a huge relief for you that it was straightforward.