Both my husband and I are Swedish so we cannot vote here but I can say one thing about Brexit made it very clear we did not want to live here forever. It also made it clear that we are not as welcome as we thought.
The anti immigrant sentiment is troubling for me and I honestly don’t feel welcome here anymore. We applied for settlement but we have already decided we are leaving. We are educated and have well paying careers in tech but we are going back to Stockholm ASAP. And I definitely do not want to raise my children here.
People think their anti immigrant stance is only against “certain immigrants “ and skilled migrants are not the ones you have an issue with. But we all hear what you think of non British people. “Foreigners “ said as a slur.
I don’t want to live any place that I’m not welcome and we certainly don’t feel welcome. I’m happy to go back to Sweden as I feel like there’s so much I miss about my home. It’s been hard living here and trying to get used to things so it’s like a weight being lifted that we are going home.
I’m expecting my first child and I don’t feel
comfortable giving birth here. So it’s for the best.
But I would say that Brexit has made myself
and other so called “good immigrants “ feel very unwelcome. You can’t be rabidly anti foreigner and think we won’t see it.
I have nothing against you wanting to control your immigration policy but I think there are a lot more people leaving now. A lot of Swedish people we know here are also going back to Sweden because for us there is less and less social cohesion here. At times it feels almost chaotic with your government. It’s just not a very well governed country. I am sorry, but it’s not.
If another Swede wanted to come and live I would say go and see and enjoy living. But it would be clear very soon that in comparison it’s not a very well organised or governed nation.
We came here for my husbands job. And if I had to do it all over I would come but only for a year or two max. I really wish we were not here to see the after effects of Brexit because I don’t like the UK that I see.
And yes I do have to be honest and say that our families and friends at home have a bad view of the UK and we are always being asked “what is going on over there” by them. Maybe the media is painting a picture that isn’t nice. But with many Swedes leaving it just gives a bad impression.