I'm posting here as the special needs boards are so quiet.
My DS 8 has always been quirky. He has never had any really obvious red flags just things like socially awkward and sometimes inappropriate.
His behaviour are more like he does not respond to any consequences, struggles to fall asleep, gets very over the top and silly and dosn't know when to stop, anxiety and a very busy brain. He finds it very hard to pay attention, gives up easily and he talks non stop. He could be perceived as a 'naughty' kid but he definitely isn't he just doesn't get it.
Recently he has started harming himself so finally the school have agreed and he has been referred to cahms.
My question is, is it best to wait for an NHS diagnosis or go down the private route. I have read private isn't accepted everywhere, but a 2/3 year wait seems rediculous.
Any experience really appreciated as I feel like a fish out of water.