I have a ds aged 8. He has always been sensitive and with a quick temper and has some sensory issues around clothes/taste. Just lately his outbursts have included him saying some incredibly hurtful things to me.....fat, ugly, stupid. He has also started talking a lot about knives and how he will destroy my stuff with a knife or chop a teddies head off etc.
Is this down to some kind if surge in hormones or is this something I should be getting help with and if so who? Senco at school?
My instinct is to ask for help but my husband is not being very supportive and says he will be forever labelled as naughty/vioelent.
I'm so low and in despair.