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Is there any way to find out who sent me money?

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IHopeYouStepOnALegoPiece · 08/06/2021 11:09

Received some money today Into my NatWest account, only info was “Happy Birthday” in the description but no name and no account details

It is my birthday so it’s unlikely to be a mistake but I of course would like to thank
Whoever it was!

Rang the bank who said they can’t tell me due to gdpr

Aside from ringing the 4 people it could be, is there any other way to find out?

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LoopTheLoops · 08/06/2021 11:12

Doesn’t it say their name? When I get money transferred It says the persons name next to it?

IHopeYouStepOnALegoPiece · 08/06/2021 11:17

Nope nothing at all!

Is there any way to find out who sent me money?
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SmellThis · 08/06/2021 11:23

Get a mini statement, should say on there
Happy birthday!

LoopTheLoops · 08/06/2021 11:36

Oh so strange 🤔 that would bug me!

HollowTalk · 08/06/2021 11:38

I would LOVE this!!!

TakeYourFinalPosition · 08/06/2021 11:43

If you look at your actual statement, it should say.

sorryiasked · 08/06/2021 11:45

You may find a name appears next to the transaction tomorrow - my online bank doesn't show details on the day the money comes in.

IHopeYouStepOnALegoPiece · 08/06/2021 12:15

HollowTalk how can anyone like it! It’s INFURIATING Grin

Thanks all. Hopefully something will come through tomorrow otherwise I’ll don my Nancy drew hat

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HollowTalk · 08/06/2021 12:40

Well yes, I can see it's a bit annoying if you don't know who sent it, but ffs there are worse problems than someone putting money into your bank account!

captainprincess · 08/06/2021 12:50

How lovely! The OP didn't say it was a problem, just wondered if she find out who it was...

LoopTheLoops · 08/06/2021 12:57

I can’t see where the op said it was annoying? It’s pretty normal to want to know where a gift came from?! It would bug me not knowing because I wouldn’t want to spend it till I know where it came from but that’s because people don’t usually send me money so I would be a bit taken back and wouldn’t have an idea of where it came from! No one is complaining 🙄

Ligglepiggle · 08/06/2021 12:57

Log onto internet banking on website rather than using the app - that’s likely to show more info.

MrsDThomas · 08/06/2021 13:03

Narrow it down to who has your banking information

BarefootHippieChick · 08/06/2021 13:04

If they've sent it via the bank then presumably they have your account details, have you thought of everyone who you may have given details to for some reason?

Dontstepinthecowpat · 08/06/2021 13:06

Well due to the grammar error in the birthday message check your birthday fb messages or text messages and see who makes the same mistake (I hope your a LOD fan now I’ve written this). Happy birthday Grin

Ivy48 · 08/06/2021 13:10

With my NatWest if you give it a day or 2 to properly clear it changes to the senders name rather than a reference. So my mother sent me money back for her shopping with the defence ‘shopping’ on Saturday, yesterday it changed to her name

bluebell34567 · 08/06/2021 13:36

@BarefootHippieChick

If they've sent it via the bank then presumably they have your account details, have you thought of everyone who you may have given details to for some reason?
good idea.
IHopeYouStepOnALegoPiece · 08/06/2021 13:49

Oh for the love of Christ Hmm of course it’s not a problem! I’m frustrated because it’s such a lovely gift I want to make sure the right person gets the thanks!

Unfortunately narrowing down who I’ve given my account details to won’t work- I’m a nanny and it’s almost certainly 1 of 3 possible families who always send me a gift and all who have my details!

And website has the same info but I’m pleased to hear from a PP it may come through tomorrow!

I’d be hugely embarrassed to not send proper thanks!

Thank you all!

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yourestandingonmyneck · 08/06/2021 14:09

@IHopeYouStepOnALegoPiece

Oh for the love of Christ Hmm of course it’s not a problem! I’m frustrated because it’s such a lovely gift I want to make sure the right person gets the thanks!

Unfortunately narrowing down who I’ve given my account details to won’t work- I’m a nanny and it’s almost certainly 1 of 3 possible families who always send me a gift and all who have my details!

And website has the same info but I’m pleased to hear from a PP it may come through tomorrow!

I’d be hugely embarrassed to not send proper thanks!

Thank you all!

Hopefully the reference will come through tomorrow, but if all 3 families always get you a gift, wait and see which one doesn't - by process of elimination the money should be from them.

Also, I suspect they will tell you. A lot of people don't check their bank account regularly. They will want you to be aware that it's there and that it's a gift, so it doesn't just get swallowed up by bills / regular spending.

RizzleRazzle · 08/06/2021 15:42

Happy birthday Op!

IHopeYouStepOnALegoPiece · 08/06/2021 20:25

Solved it! It was one of my old bosses Grin she messaged to say happy Birthday and asked if I’d received it Blush

But all good and I’m relieved I could say thanks Grin

Thanks for keeping me company on this whirlwind Wink

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