When I was 16 I fancied my friends big brother (18). We dated for a couple of months but it was a bad dynamic so we split up. Over the years we saw each other at parties etc. Nothing ever happened but i goback to being 16 again when I saw him.
Were now in our forties, happily married (well I am) but there might have been an occasion where we would have been (friends birthday). I've worked out we can't go and I'm glad as I won't see him as I hate reverting back to the 16 year old me!
Does anyone else revert to there younger selves when they see an old crush? Do you have a solution?